What to do about this unresolved anger- long, long rant?

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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvwGPgF..itVbAaUb5tEQQQG53NG;_ylv=3?qid=20090910004435AAYCQ71What to do about this unresolved anger- long, long rant?
plain and simple. he's afraid to give you his heart because he love you and he fighting it because he has been hurt by what his brother and other people been saying to him all his life and he couldn't stand to be hurt by the one he loves.so to stay safe him pushes you away.trying not to let you know, you have his heart even though it's still in his hand..hang in there it will worth your while.What to do about this unresolved anger- long, long rant?
Tell him that he needs to either man up or get out. He can't have it both ways!! If he loves you, he had better make some sort of commitment BEFORE he leaves, or you will not be waiting for him.





I can honestly tell you, however, that it is no fun waiting for your guy to come home. My 1st husband was in the service. It was miserable. I could not even go out, because I did not have a date, or he did not want me to go alone or with friends. We married when he was on leave, and had stopped in town on leave, just before he went to a different duty station. Boy, was that a mistake. He had changed so much in the time he was gone, that I did not even know him anymore--nor did I like this new person he had become. I wanted a divorce within months, but I was stuck a long way from home. The marriage lasted only about 22 months, but it did not end before I had a child. I hate to say it, but that should never have happened. My poor daughter had to suffer having divorced parents.





I have heard it from a lot of women. I seems that if the guy has not been married for any length of time before he leaves, he will change tremendously.





The decision is yours, but I thought you should know.
You want advise? Stay away from him. Don't call him, don't write, don't even accidentally on purpose be in places that he would go.





He needs to realize on his own what he wants. And if he's not able to have an adult relationship then you don't want to waste your life on him.





He's 30 years old for pity's sake not still in high school. Go to eHarmony.com or some other dating place ... even if you don't want to find someone else, get into the practice of dating again. Who knows you might find Mr.Right or make a friend.
just keep your silence for awhile and talk things out
do what u think is right in your heart