sorry for not using proper grammar right now, but anyway..this person got me mad..so i left a big paragraph about how he is moody and has different pesonalities..then i went on about ways that he should improve how he deals with people..and how he's the type of person i have to walk on eggshells with..i told him he does a lot of passive aggressive things..then i started saying random things that have nothing to do with him..i left like an essay of stuff saying how i hate small talk..how you shouldn't let past experiences hold you back..and random crap..i don't know what was wrong with me and since it was over the internet, there's no way i can take it all back..i made up for insulting him a little farther into the rant but i don't think he's going to read it that far, so he'll just see the insults...
What should I say to him? I wasn't thinking straight..?What do you do if you left someone a huge rant and can't take it back?
If he got you mad, maybe it's good for him to read some of what you said. They best you can do is apologize after he's read it, and tell him what parts you really didn't mean, and explain what he did that made you so angry.What do you do if you left someone a huge rant and can't take it back?
Do you know this person in real life?
If so, then you need to pick up the phone or see him in person and apologize. Don't make excuses - just apologize for what you wrote and ask him to forgive you.
If you don't know him IRL, then just leave him alone. Once you've gone off on someone in a public forum, it's pretty hard to get them to trust you again.
I wouldn't say anything else to this person seeing how you've already said enough :P%26gt; Aside from that if the person is not offended then that's a good thing. The best thing to do is to do absolutely nothing but let it blow over gradually.
Stop worrying so much over this, what will happen will happen, if he wants to stay in touch he will, just give things time to cool off , and when faced with him just apologise sincerely., and let him know you were venting .
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