It's a shallow world ain't it? It's a rant ... read at own risk?

...hmmm got into a debate with my 17 year old sister who believes she is a bit more mature than me...which i may have to agree on. I'm 19 by the way, However i'm not an idiot. I'm a college student, i work at a daycare...AND WELL HAVE NO LIFE REALLY (duh on Y!A)


well I need to know we were discussing three things i hate the most, One was my outlook on how looks shouldn't mean everything


Two how ,if people didn't care about your appearance there would be less deaths with anorexia and bulimia.


Three her concern on my ';it doesn't bother me, I'm happy with myself and engaged'; outlook on my weight.





It's true I'm not my normal weight which should be 130


it's true that I don't care because I am happy


and it's true that I'm studying really hard to pursue my goal in life.





So why is it that my own SISTER says I won't go further unless i get into THE LOOK of now?


Is it necessary to do my hair and wear matching outfits for my Psychology of the Adolescence mind 102?


Am i wrong for not caring about how i look and how i dress RIGHT NOW IN LIFE?


I know that when i become a Teacher i will need to have these qualities but why now? I'm only 19 i'm hardworking and I'm sorry if my hair isn't done and i just put it in a bun... but am i wrong?


Am i wrong that i don't care about my weight right now? I know i have to lose weight for health reasons but i'm not HOLY CRAP can't go up the first flight of stairs fat...


school is my only true ISSUE right now. Once i'm done with it i can go on about my appearance... why does it have to be... YOU NEED TO BE a size 6 to look good. My fiance loves me... he's in the army and just is the sweetest, he sees me as the hottest girl ever lol...And i know that...but what she said hurt...


should i really change?It's a shallow world ain't it? It's a rant ... read at own risk?
However i'm not an idiot. I'm a college student,





I'm sorry but I don't think going to college makes anyone more intelligent than someone who hasn't. But I do agree with you.





Okay it didn't come off to me that way at first. She may not be that younger than you but ain't there more peer pressure on her?It's a shallow world ain't it? It's a rant ... read at own risk?
you are right it was a rant!!!