I bought an 88 Camaro for little money. I then had my mechanic of 3 years begin to fix the car.
Right way the car needed a new fuel pump. Was replaced and took about 5 hours.
Another problem was a fan that wasn't working on the motor.
I waited for six weeks before any work was done to the car.
Two days ago, I told him I wanted a bill or I wanted him to finish the car asap. He agreed to work on the car.
Today I received a $842 bill! I don't have the bill in front of me but I do remember some details.
I remember I was charged for 6 hours of labor, totalling $240. I'm guessing the fuel pump was about $150.
I know a fan had to have some adjustments made. Could this cost $400?
I know basic maintenance was done to the car, but he didn't even change the oil.
I know it's hard to comment because I don't have all the specifics in front of me. I didn't have a chance to really look at the bill today because I had to take the car to another mechanic.
See, the brakes on the car were absolutely horrible. I can lie with suspension and other issues but I definitely need brakes.
Like I said, my bill was $842. I gave him $400 cash and told him he would get the rest Monday.
Now that I am thinking about it, I'm pretty sure he will be more likely receiving a $200 check.
6 weeks is a long time to have your car worked on. Wouldn't you agree?How does one address a mechanic who grossly overcharged for work? Kind of a rant...?
what i will agree with is, you are getting ripped off !!!!
replacing a fuel pump in a mid 80's Camaro, (if you know what you are doing) only takes about an hour, two hours billed, max. (barring any major problems).
replacing a fan on this vehicle, whether it is electric or mechanical is about an hour or less to replace. (if the mechanic is honest).
6 hours of labor at $240 is a fair charge per hour, ( $40 an hour is not bad at all ) i would just be questioning the amount of hours actually worked.
but keep in mind some places have set charges for things or minimum hours charged for a specific job, if this is the case, you may need to just pay the bill and consider it lesson learned. if this is not the case look closely at the actual time worked on the vehicle and if it did take that long for the repairs, was it because he milked the clock or he just does not know what he is doing? you should not pay for their lack of knowledge, that is their problem..How does one address a mechanic who grossly overcharged for work? Kind of a rant...?
because ive worked in this feild an im not a professional but i do have some expierence if ur dealing with a ma-pa type of joint then yea the bill can reach higher
i say if you want a car like that then you should probably have learned how to fix or rebuild cars.
6 weeks does sound like a long time. you never said why it took so long. No the price of the bill does not sound to big a deal with the lil info you provided. i question 240 for 6 hours. What kind of shop charges 40 dollars an hour. i have paid more than double that to insure the job is done right. I think you took a car with lots of problems to a mech with lots of problems. Of course you aren't gonna get what you want.
Six weeks is too long, but $842 is not too much for that kind of work. They don't just automatically change your oil. That is a separate issue and is an additional charge for that service. If go to an excellent mechanic in my city, and they charge average price for labor-$71 per hour. So getting six hours for $240 is a bargain, only $40 per hour. Next time it might be best to get a written estimate of your auto repair, so you can prepare yourself and your wallet when it's time to pay.
Tell him you feel ripped if you have to give him any more than $400 now that you drive the car and see he knows nothing, and did very little. Then get another mechanic. I am curious what fan adjustments he needed to do, the fan on the 88 Camaro was not adjustable, he is seriously messing with you, ask the new mechanic to check the list, then threaten him with fraud if he failed to perform any duty he charged for. He may give some money back.
yeah but the price could be right,maintenance is a very big part of the bill it sounds like,fans are expensive too.and you don't want to cheat him any money he says you owe, if you signed a repair order,then he has power to charge you what ever he thinks is necessary,if you cheat him on money then he can get a mechanics lean on your car,in some state a mechanics lean is stronger than a bank lean.I dont want to point fingers,but its your fault he didn't work on the car for 6 weeks.If its not done in two days go get it,pay him for diagnosis and be on your way.
Well, theres a mechanics book, that gives the time for every job. You local library might have a copy for your car, or you'll have to investigate online. That can be used as a base for how long a job should take. It can also be used in small claims court to recover from a dishonest mechanic. I would not pay anymore, and find the hours for the two jobs, so you can point that out. If there were any extenuating work that had to be done, ask him to point it out. Also, i would find a new mechanic asap.
Saturday, January 9, 2010
To Bash or Not to Bash That is the Question- A musing (or rant) on Twilight?
Okay recently there have been a lot of questions along the lines of why do you twihaters pick on us... yadda yadda yadda. Oftentimes the asker states that none of us have even read the book then ask to be left alone.
Is anyone else seeing a bit of irony in this? Being a bored college kid, I actually take my time to read some of the posts on here. Oftentimes the people who don't like Twilight are the ones who actually explain why they don't. ';Twilight is a boring read because I feel asleep reading it'; ';Bella is a weak character whose narration is whinny and unappealing'; ';There is no character development; Bella and Edward remain stagnate'; ';Bella is spoiled and in the end gets everything she wants. Where's the plot in that, it just doesn't work out that way'; Heck many people even note the fact that its not the books but the fanatics that are being bashed. I've also notice that nearly all of the time the answer that usually gets picked as best are along the lines of ';I know; they are so mean';
On the verse side when is see people explaining why it is the best book ever written its usually something like ';because edward is hot'; ';because of the romance'; ';because of the great writing'; The answers tend to be vaguer and less...well convincing.
The other thing I am noticing is many people who are use to this board are stuck typing don't suggest twilight for book reccomendations even with subjects such as ';suggest some good non-fiction'; and ';what's a book like angels and demons'; and still it rarely fails that twilight is among the answers.
In the end I am left with a set of questions
-Why do Twilighters always assume that people who give a negative review of the book or are fustrated with the endless twilight postings automatically assume that they haven't read the book?
-Why can I never get a full answer as to the redeaming qualities of Twilight? (ie why twilight is a good literary work)
-Do those who are merclessly labeled ';twihaters'; really out number twilighters on this board?
-Even I admit that the searchbar doesn't work the greatest but why do we keep seeing ';when is MS going to be released';?
-Why do people ask for opinions on the book and then get upset when they read a negative post?
-Why are people labeled twilhaters for making even one negative statement about the book?
-Why do people keep suggesting twilight to people who obviously aren't interested in it?
-What is the most original Twilight question you have seen asked recently? (okay I'm mixing things up with a poll question).
I know this post favors more toward those who dislike the books because of my own biases, but I'm interested in answers from both sides.To Bash or Not to Bash That is the Question- A musing (or rant) on Twilight?
All the twilight lovers love Twilight because there is something appealing and magical about vampires, Edward is basically the perfect man, and many girls wish they were in Bella's position. It is romantic and different from the usual guy description of ';yeah I'm hot and I wanna bang every chick I can';, Edward is sensitive and the girls thrive on that. It has action to balance out the mushy romance part, and its exciting to read because its obviously not what happens in everyday life because it has super attractive, mythical creatures battling it out. It also IS very well written, I doubt a poorly written book even with the Twilight characters and plot line would be successful. The author is able to make a connection with Bella and the readers. In conclusion, no matter how much you question it, Twilight is the craze and hype right now and people are anxious for MS to come out and they want other people to enjoy Twilight too, even though some may be more aggressive about it. Everyone has their own opinions, so everyone just needs to shut their mouths and respect each others thoughts and opinions. Theres no need to shove the Twilight series down someone's throat, and theres no need to make a fool out of yourself by trash talking a popular book because THEN YOU ARE ASKING FOR TROUBLE. And don't generalize Twilight fans, not all of the thousands of fans are out on the internet having virtual fights and arguments with people who don't like Twilight. Its not like the book turns you into a obsessed monster who is programmed to help make the book take over the world. Thats just some peoples PERSONALITIES. But yeah, people need to chill out on OMG YOU DON'T LIKE TWILIGHT? DIEEE, and the WTF TWILIGHT IS THE STUPIDEST BOOK EVER, YOU PEOPLE ARE OUT OF YOUR FREAKING MINDS. Quite frankly ITS ANNOYING.To Bash or Not to Bash That is the Question- A musing (or rant) on Twilight?
I stopped reading after yadda yadda yadda are you from 10 years ago?
';Why can I never get a full answer as to the redeaming qualities of Twilight? (ie why twilight is a good literary work)';
The writing is quite simple, but Hemingway was a simple writer as well. The outstanding quality for Twilight is that the story is so emotional. Both main characters-- Edward and Bella-- are awash in overwrought emotions.
So the book is emotionally satisfying. Bella is obsessed with Edward. Edward, while appearing aloof at first, is obsessed with Bella. There is a symmetry there that is satisfying.
****spoilers ahead*****
Even at the end of Twilight when Edward refuses to turn Bella into a vampire....... it's part of his obsession.... just like Bella is desperate to become a vampire....... it's like.... the absolute obsession is taken to it's absolute conclusion. And that's gratifying as a reader. It's really a gothic romance about extremism.
And....... one of the best things about Twilight is that it inspires so many people-- including me-- to write down their romantic dreams in novel form. (Although for me, I'm not writing about vampires.) I think the fact that it inspires so many people is a good thing.
Hi there,
-Why do Twilighters always assume that people who give a negative review of the book or are fustrated with the endless twilight postings automatically assume that they haven't read the book?
They cannot imagine that anyone who has read it could dislike it, because they love it so much. That shows a lack of consideration and empathy.
-Why can I never get a full answer as to the redeaming qualities of Twilight? (ie why twilight is a good literary work)
Because the people who DO think it's good have not learnt enough yet to say why. Many of them have only read four books in their lives, i.e. Twilight and all its sequels, and therefore, naturally they think it's good.
-Do those who are merclessly labeled ';twihaters'; really out number twilighters on this board?
I have wondered about this myself. I think we are more persistent - the Twilighters mostly post a few questions, get ranted at, and leave YA for good, I suppose.
-Even I admit that the searchbar doesn't work the greatest but why do we keep seeing ';when is MS going to be released';?
Hmm. Well, you know, since Bella Swan, being retarded has become fashionable...
-Why do people ask for opinions on the book and then get upset when they read a negative post?
GOOD QUESTION.
-Why are people labeled twilhaters for making even one negative statement about the book?
It's the same with any fundamentalist religion or dictatorship out there. Either you love it with all you being, repeatedly say so, and try to convince others (by being very, very annoying), or you are no true fan.
-Why do people keep suggesting twilight to people who obviously aren't interested in it?
As I said... Being stupid is chic.
-What is the most original Twilight question you have seen asked recently? (okay I'm mixing things up with a poll question).
I doubt I've ever seen any.
Cheers
S
The one thing I hated about twilight was that there was no build up for their romance it was just like okay I love you because you want to bite me! lol SM should have done something that would have made that part a bit better
As far as likers and dislikers' justifications go, I think looking at the demographic of the fanbase is a big reason. The book/movie are marketed toward teens for the most part and teenagers aren't known for their poignant introspection and literary criticism, so yea, most of their reasons are ';because Edward is hot';. You don't see many adults going nuts for Twilight, like a lot did for HP, because the books really aren't written very well. It's garbage with an intriguing hook.
ok, here is just my opinion. i don't actually have answers for you, but, I LOVE TWILIGHT %26amp; so do a lot of my friends, including like an entire adult sunday school class (well the women anyway). i don't read books for literary reasons, just for fun. as far as age related opinions, i know of a jr. high class who was assigned to read it %26amp; loved it plus the sunday school class mentioned above.
f.) it's a mark of maturity to be able to fairly answer a question about something you don't like
Very, very true.
-Why do Twilighters always assume that people who give a negative review of the book or are fustrated with the endless twilight postings automatically assume that they haven't read the book?
What's it called... ostriches in the sand? Pretend they didn't read it so their opinions don't count so no one hates Twilight so the world is fine.
The thing is, some people truly have not read the books, so the fans nitpick and apply it to everyone.
-Why can I never get a full answer as to the redeaming qualities of Twilight? (ie why twilight is a good literary work)
Because there are none =.=
Ok, though I dislike it, I will try...
1) It's easy to read.
2) Escapist self insert fantasy to spend a boring afternoon
3) Learn new vocab words! Though they're used in weird places.
-Do those who are merclessly labeled ';twihaters'; really out number twilighters on this board?
Don't know. Probably. Hopefully!
-Even I admit that the searchbar doesn't work the greatest but why do we keep seeing ';when is MS going to be released';?
Choose one:
a) people are dumb
b) people are lazy
c) people want to give other people free points
-Why do people ask for opinions on the book and then get upset when they read a negative post?
They're already skewed in favor of Twilight. They just want positive reviews to reinforce that. Sort of like living in bliss then getting upset when something bursts your bubble.
-Why are people labeled twilhaters for making even one negative statement about the book?
Why are people labeled twihards for making one positive statement about the book? Labels happen. Over time, they cease to have meaning.
-Why do people keep suggesting twilight to people who obviously aren't interested in it?
Choose one:
a) free points
b) truly have not read anything else
c) thought are consumed by Twilight
d) Twilightitis. This disease causes anything associated with the series to trigger off happy feelings and thoughts of pure Twilight, for example, that apple yonder, show it to someone infected with Twilightitis and they will scream ';ZOMG IT'S APPLE LIKE SHOWS FORBIDDEN LOVE AND STUFF';. Show them a book and you get ';ZOMG TIS BOOK LIKE TWILIGHT IS BOOK SO BOOK = TWILIGHT';
-What is the most original Twilight question you have seen asked recently? (okay I'm mixing things up with a poll question).
Hehe, a weird one about vampire farts that I tried to answer scientifically.
Man, your COLLEGE offered courses where TWILIGHT was required reading? Even my high school doesn't do that! (nothing against you, of course)
-Why do Twilighters always assume that people who give a negative review of the book or are fustrated with the endless twilight postings automatically assume that they haven't read the book?
Because they just don't want to believe that someone can honestly not like the book.
-Why can I never get a full answer as to the redeaming qualities of Twilight? (ie why twilight is a good literary work)
Because the are none.
-Do those who are merclessly labeled ';twihaters'; really out number twilighters on this board?
I hope so.
-Even I admit that the searchbar doesn't work the greatest but why do we keep seeing ';when is MS going to be released';?
Either they really have nothing better to do or they live to annoy us, take your pick.
-Why do people ask for opinions on the book and then get upset when they read a negative post?
Because they want everyone to think exactly like they do.
-Why are people labeled twilhaters for making even one negative statement about the book?
Because ';LYK OMG how can u dis twilight? It's LYK d bes buk eva. Stph Myr is a genus.';
-Why do people keep suggesting twilight to people who obviously aren't interested in it?
Because it's the only book they've ever read so it's the only one they CAN suggest.
-What is the most original Twilight question you have seen asked recently? (okay I'm mixing things up with a poll question).
Is there such a thing as an original Twilight question?
Haha...I saw a question like that, where someone asked for a NON-FICTION book and someone told them to read Twilight. And I've also seen someone post a question saying, ';I have already read twilight, so don't suggest it'; or ';I'm not interested in teen fiction like Twilight, so don't suggest it,'; yet people still say to read Twilight. It is quite stupid actually.
In my opinion Twilight is a really good series. (No I'm not dissing it) but I think that some people go wayyyyyyy to overboard on the fandom train, yes I read the books, hoping to see the movie, but no I'm not going to act like the biggest fan on Earth over one series. And yes I do think that Stepanie Mayer is an awesome writer!!!!! My last point is.... If anyone has even fricking seen the fourth Harry Potter movie you would know that the actor that played Edward Cullen in the movie also played Cedric Diggory in 'the Goblet of Fire'. (Sorry just had to make that point.)
-Why do Twilighters always assume that people who give a negative review of the book or are fustrated with the endless twilight postings automatically assume that they haven't read the book?
------- Some people can't believe people can even hate a book like Twilight, I agree that is might be annoying to some people if people just rant on their questions but seriously, I have read the wholeentire Twilight series and I can honestly say there is nothing special about it to be.
-Why can I never get a full answer as to the redeaming qualities of Twilight? (ie why twilight is a good literary work)
------ Because Twilight is NOT a piece of literary work, some people can go through the book with a red pen correcting all of her mistakes.
-Do those who are merclessly labeled ';twihaters'; really out number twilighters on this board?
-----I think there are a lot of Twihaters, they just keep quiet. On YA I think there are more Twilighters.
-Even I admit that the searchbar doesn't work the greatest but why do we keep seeing ';when is MS going to be released';?
----Midnight Sun is Twilight in Edward's point of view and we keep on seeing it because some people are allergic to using asearch engine.
-Why do people ask for opinions on the book and then get upset when they read a negative post?
-----I dunno....
-Why are people labeled twilhaters for making even one negative statement about the book?
------Some people just can't understand that it is even possible for people (like me) to dislike Twilight.
-Why do people keep suggesting twilight to people who obviously aren't interested in it?
-------Because some people are truly obsessed and want to support their fandom
-What is the most original Twilight question you have seen asked recently?
------- Not much, they are usually the same question repeated.
*Sorry for the lame answers!*
someone asked a while ago 'how far back has stephenie meyer sent feminism' that was a good question.
personally i hate twlight. it's badly written, boring, and a terrible example to women. it actually alarms me the opiniosn that meyer seems to have about relationships. it's unhealthy.
i also hate that most of the questions are the same, and that no one likes to hear bad things. it's a public question, so why do they ask if they don't want to know.
i am personally very pleased to be considered a twihater. i think i will eve get a teeshirt with it one it.
It is a sign of immaturity to become obsessed with something (i.e. movie/book) that has little literary value based on hormones.
That said, the obvious answer to all of the questions is that these people are 14 and probably still sleep with a night light.
I've read 'Twilight' and intend to read the rest of the series simply because I started it and might as well finish.
It's entertaining enough and I can see what draws teenaged girls to it, but that's about it.
My ';twihate'; is specifically directed @ the people who incessantly bring it up as if there is no other subject on Earth to discuss.
The way I see it, I only have so much time in my life and none of it is reserved for obsessive, repetitive, immature rantings about a book that is mediochre at best.
Thank you for speaking for the rest of us so eloquently. (=
Not that it will make a damn bit of difference.
Is anyone else seeing a bit of irony in this? Being a bored college kid, I actually take my time to read some of the posts on here. Oftentimes the people who don't like Twilight are the ones who actually explain why they don't. ';Twilight is a boring read because I feel asleep reading it'; ';Bella is a weak character whose narration is whinny and unappealing'; ';There is no character development; Bella and Edward remain stagnate'; ';Bella is spoiled and in the end gets everything she wants. Where's the plot in that, it just doesn't work out that way'; Heck many people even note the fact that its not the books but the fanatics that are being bashed. I've also notice that nearly all of the time the answer that usually gets picked as best are along the lines of ';I know; they are so mean';
On the verse side when is see people explaining why it is the best book ever written its usually something like ';because edward is hot'; ';because of the romance'; ';because of the great writing'; The answers tend to be vaguer and less...well convincing.
The other thing I am noticing is many people who are use to this board are stuck typing don't suggest twilight for book reccomendations even with subjects such as ';suggest some good non-fiction'; and ';what's a book like angels and demons'; and still it rarely fails that twilight is among the answers.
In the end I am left with a set of questions
-Why do Twilighters always assume that people who give a negative review of the book or are fustrated with the endless twilight postings automatically assume that they haven't read the book?
-Why can I never get a full answer as to the redeaming qualities of Twilight? (ie why twilight is a good literary work)
-Do those who are merclessly labeled ';twihaters'; really out number twilighters on this board?
-Even I admit that the searchbar doesn't work the greatest but why do we keep seeing ';when is MS going to be released';?
-Why do people ask for opinions on the book and then get upset when they read a negative post?
-Why are people labeled twilhaters for making even one negative statement about the book?
-Why do people keep suggesting twilight to people who obviously aren't interested in it?
-What is the most original Twilight question you have seen asked recently? (okay I'm mixing things up with a poll question).
I know this post favors more toward those who dislike the books because of my own biases, but I'm interested in answers from both sides.To Bash or Not to Bash That is the Question- A musing (or rant) on Twilight?
All the twilight lovers love Twilight because there is something appealing and magical about vampires, Edward is basically the perfect man, and many girls wish they were in Bella's position. It is romantic and different from the usual guy description of ';yeah I'm hot and I wanna bang every chick I can';, Edward is sensitive and the girls thrive on that. It has action to balance out the mushy romance part, and its exciting to read because its obviously not what happens in everyday life because it has super attractive, mythical creatures battling it out. It also IS very well written, I doubt a poorly written book even with the Twilight characters and plot line would be successful. The author is able to make a connection with Bella and the readers. In conclusion, no matter how much you question it, Twilight is the craze and hype right now and people are anxious for MS to come out and they want other people to enjoy Twilight too, even though some may be more aggressive about it. Everyone has their own opinions, so everyone just needs to shut their mouths and respect each others thoughts and opinions. Theres no need to shove the Twilight series down someone's throat, and theres no need to make a fool out of yourself by trash talking a popular book because THEN YOU ARE ASKING FOR TROUBLE. And don't generalize Twilight fans, not all of the thousands of fans are out on the internet having virtual fights and arguments with people who don't like Twilight. Its not like the book turns you into a obsessed monster who is programmed to help make the book take over the world. Thats just some peoples PERSONALITIES. But yeah, people need to chill out on OMG YOU DON'T LIKE TWILIGHT? DIEEE, and the WTF TWILIGHT IS THE STUPIDEST BOOK EVER, YOU PEOPLE ARE OUT OF YOUR FREAKING MINDS. Quite frankly ITS ANNOYING.To Bash or Not to Bash That is the Question- A musing (or rant) on Twilight?
I stopped reading after yadda yadda yadda are you from 10 years ago?
';Why can I never get a full answer as to the redeaming qualities of Twilight? (ie why twilight is a good literary work)';
The writing is quite simple, but Hemingway was a simple writer as well. The outstanding quality for Twilight is that the story is so emotional. Both main characters-- Edward and Bella-- are awash in overwrought emotions.
So the book is emotionally satisfying. Bella is obsessed with Edward. Edward, while appearing aloof at first, is obsessed with Bella. There is a symmetry there that is satisfying.
****spoilers ahead*****
Even at the end of Twilight when Edward refuses to turn Bella into a vampire....... it's part of his obsession.... just like Bella is desperate to become a vampire....... it's like.... the absolute obsession is taken to it's absolute conclusion. And that's gratifying as a reader. It's really a gothic romance about extremism.
And....... one of the best things about Twilight is that it inspires so many people-- including me-- to write down their romantic dreams in novel form. (Although for me, I'm not writing about vampires.) I think the fact that it inspires so many people is a good thing.
Hi there,
-Why do Twilighters always assume that people who give a negative review of the book or are fustrated with the endless twilight postings automatically assume that they haven't read the book?
They cannot imagine that anyone who has read it could dislike it, because they love it so much. That shows a lack of consideration and empathy.
-Why can I never get a full answer as to the redeaming qualities of Twilight? (ie why twilight is a good literary work)
Because the people who DO think it's good have not learnt enough yet to say why. Many of them have only read four books in their lives, i.e. Twilight and all its sequels, and therefore, naturally they think it's good.
-Do those who are merclessly labeled ';twihaters'; really out number twilighters on this board?
I have wondered about this myself. I think we are more persistent - the Twilighters mostly post a few questions, get ranted at, and leave YA for good, I suppose.
-Even I admit that the searchbar doesn't work the greatest but why do we keep seeing ';when is MS going to be released';?
Hmm. Well, you know, since Bella Swan, being retarded has become fashionable...
-Why do people ask for opinions on the book and then get upset when they read a negative post?
GOOD QUESTION.
-Why are people labeled twilhaters for making even one negative statement about the book?
It's the same with any fundamentalist religion or dictatorship out there. Either you love it with all you being, repeatedly say so, and try to convince others (by being very, very annoying), or you are no true fan.
-Why do people keep suggesting twilight to people who obviously aren't interested in it?
As I said... Being stupid is chic.
-What is the most original Twilight question you have seen asked recently? (okay I'm mixing things up with a poll question).
I doubt I've ever seen any.
Cheers
S
The one thing I hated about twilight was that there was no build up for their romance it was just like okay I love you because you want to bite me! lol SM should have done something that would have made that part a bit better
As far as likers and dislikers' justifications go, I think looking at the demographic of the fanbase is a big reason. The book/movie are marketed toward teens for the most part and teenagers aren't known for their poignant introspection and literary criticism, so yea, most of their reasons are ';because Edward is hot';. You don't see many adults going nuts for Twilight, like a lot did for HP, because the books really aren't written very well. It's garbage with an intriguing hook.
ok, here is just my opinion. i don't actually have answers for you, but, I LOVE TWILIGHT %26amp; so do a lot of my friends, including like an entire adult sunday school class (well the women anyway). i don't read books for literary reasons, just for fun. as far as age related opinions, i know of a jr. high class who was assigned to read it %26amp; loved it plus the sunday school class mentioned above.
f.) it's a mark of maturity to be able to fairly answer a question about something you don't like
Very, very true.
-Why do Twilighters always assume that people who give a negative review of the book or are fustrated with the endless twilight postings automatically assume that they haven't read the book?
What's it called... ostriches in the sand? Pretend they didn't read it so their opinions don't count so no one hates Twilight so the world is fine.
The thing is, some people truly have not read the books, so the fans nitpick and apply it to everyone.
-Why can I never get a full answer as to the redeaming qualities of Twilight? (ie why twilight is a good literary work)
Because there are none =.=
Ok, though I dislike it, I will try...
1) It's easy to read.
2) Escapist self insert fantasy to spend a boring afternoon
3) Learn new vocab words! Though they're used in weird places.
-Do those who are merclessly labeled ';twihaters'; really out number twilighters on this board?
Don't know. Probably. Hopefully!
-Even I admit that the searchbar doesn't work the greatest but why do we keep seeing ';when is MS going to be released';?
Choose one:
a) people are dumb
b) people are lazy
c) people want to give other people free points
-Why do people ask for opinions on the book and then get upset when they read a negative post?
They're already skewed in favor of Twilight. They just want positive reviews to reinforce that. Sort of like living in bliss then getting upset when something bursts your bubble.
-Why are people labeled twilhaters for making even one negative statement about the book?
Why are people labeled twihards for making one positive statement about the book? Labels happen. Over time, they cease to have meaning.
-Why do people keep suggesting twilight to people who obviously aren't interested in it?
Choose one:
a) free points
b) truly have not read anything else
c) thought are consumed by Twilight
d) Twilightitis. This disease causes anything associated with the series to trigger off happy feelings and thoughts of pure Twilight, for example, that apple yonder, show it to someone infected with Twilightitis and they will scream ';ZOMG IT'S APPLE LIKE SHOWS FORBIDDEN LOVE AND STUFF';. Show them a book and you get ';ZOMG TIS BOOK LIKE TWILIGHT IS BOOK SO BOOK = TWILIGHT';
-What is the most original Twilight question you have seen asked recently? (okay I'm mixing things up with a poll question).
Hehe, a weird one about vampire farts that I tried to answer scientifically.
Man, your COLLEGE offered courses where TWILIGHT was required reading? Even my high school doesn't do that! (nothing against you, of course)
-Why do Twilighters always assume that people who give a negative review of the book or are fustrated with the endless twilight postings automatically assume that they haven't read the book?
Because they just don't want to believe that someone can honestly not like the book.
-Why can I never get a full answer as to the redeaming qualities of Twilight? (ie why twilight is a good literary work)
Because the are none.
-Do those who are merclessly labeled ';twihaters'; really out number twilighters on this board?
I hope so.
-Even I admit that the searchbar doesn't work the greatest but why do we keep seeing ';when is MS going to be released';?
Either they really have nothing better to do or they live to annoy us, take your pick.
-Why do people ask for opinions on the book and then get upset when they read a negative post?
Because they want everyone to think exactly like they do.
-Why are people labeled twilhaters for making even one negative statement about the book?
Because ';LYK OMG how can u dis twilight? It's LYK d bes buk eva. Stph Myr is a genus.';
-Why do people keep suggesting twilight to people who obviously aren't interested in it?
Because it's the only book they've ever read so it's the only one they CAN suggest.
-What is the most original Twilight question you have seen asked recently? (okay I'm mixing things up with a poll question).
Is there such a thing as an original Twilight question?
Haha...I saw a question like that, where someone asked for a NON-FICTION book and someone told them to read Twilight. And I've also seen someone post a question saying, ';I have already read twilight, so don't suggest it'; or ';I'm not interested in teen fiction like Twilight, so don't suggest it,'; yet people still say to read Twilight. It is quite stupid actually.
In my opinion Twilight is a really good series. (No I'm not dissing it) but I think that some people go wayyyyyyy to overboard on the fandom train, yes I read the books, hoping to see the movie, but no I'm not going to act like the biggest fan on Earth over one series. And yes I do think that Stepanie Mayer is an awesome writer!!!!! My last point is.... If anyone has even fricking seen the fourth Harry Potter movie you would know that the actor that played Edward Cullen in the movie also played Cedric Diggory in 'the Goblet of Fire'. (Sorry just had to make that point.)
-Why do Twilighters always assume that people who give a negative review of the book or are fustrated with the endless twilight postings automatically assume that they haven't read the book?
------- Some people can't believe people can even hate a book like Twilight, I agree that is might be annoying to some people if people just rant on their questions but seriously, I have read the wholeentire Twilight series and I can honestly say there is nothing special about it to be.
-Why can I never get a full answer as to the redeaming qualities of Twilight? (ie why twilight is a good literary work)
------ Because Twilight is NOT a piece of literary work, some people can go through the book with a red pen correcting all of her mistakes.
-Do those who are merclessly labeled ';twihaters'; really out number twilighters on this board?
-----I think there are a lot of Twihaters, they just keep quiet. On YA I think there are more Twilighters.
-Even I admit that the searchbar doesn't work the greatest but why do we keep seeing ';when is MS going to be released';?
----Midnight Sun is Twilight in Edward's point of view and we keep on seeing it because some people are allergic to using asearch engine.
-Why do people ask for opinions on the book and then get upset when they read a negative post?
-----I dunno....
-Why are people labeled twilhaters for making even one negative statement about the book?
------Some people just can't understand that it is even possible for people (like me) to dislike Twilight.
-Why do people keep suggesting twilight to people who obviously aren't interested in it?
-------Because some people are truly obsessed and want to support their fandom
-What is the most original Twilight question you have seen asked recently?
------- Not much, they are usually the same question repeated.
*Sorry for the lame answers!*
someone asked a while ago 'how far back has stephenie meyer sent feminism' that was a good question.
personally i hate twlight. it's badly written, boring, and a terrible example to women. it actually alarms me the opiniosn that meyer seems to have about relationships. it's unhealthy.
i also hate that most of the questions are the same, and that no one likes to hear bad things. it's a public question, so why do they ask if they don't want to know.
i am personally very pleased to be considered a twihater. i think i will eve get a teeshirt with it one it.
It is a sign of immaturity to become obsessed with something (i.e. movie/book) that has little literary value based on hormones.
That said, the obvious answer to all of the questions is that these people are 14 and probably still sleep with a night light.
I've read 'Twilight' and intend to read the rest of the series simply because I started it and might as well finish.
It's entertaining enough and I can see what draws teenaged girls to it, but that's about it.
My ';twihate'; is specifically directed @ the people who incessantly bring it up as if there is no other subject on Earth to discuss.
The way I see it, I only have so much time in my life and none of it is reserved for obsessive, repetitive, immature rantings about a book that is mediochre at best.
Thank you for speaking for the rest of us so eloquently. (=
Not that it will make a damn bit of difference.
Why can guys be such assholes? (Kind of a long post - basically a rant)?
For example, New Years Eve. I'd talked to my boyfriend 3 days before New Years and asked if he wanted to do something. He said yes, but in kind of an annoying way (I asked ';Do you want to do something for New Years, or do you have other plans?'; And he just said ';No';. The fact that I wanted an actual answer from him got me frustrated, but I tried to be patient and asked him which question he was answering...but he just kept being a pain about it. I called him again though and then asked him the questions separately and he stopped being a pain and said that he would like to hang out for New Years.)
Come New Years Eve, I'm just getting back from Florida at around 5 and looking forward to the fact that I can actually see him that night (the flight had been delayed, and there was a chance that my grandparents weren't going to let me and my brother fly out cause of the shitty weather in NH). So I call him, and he says that if I can get a ride to his sister's house then we can hang out. I say I'll ask my dad later to see if he can give me a ride, and that I'll call him later. I ask my dad as soon as I get home, and very nicely (which is sort of strange for me, even in these situations) if I can go over his house. He yells at me and says no (because he wanted to drink, which is fine but he had to be so ******* complicated and not tell me til 10 minutes later - note to dad's: give your reason when your kid asks ';why not';, because if you don't and she keeps asking and you just yell at her, it's not really helping the situation). So later that night, I'm upset 'cause I can't see my boyfriend who I haven't seen for a week and a half. My dad's girlfriend apparently talked to him, and she yells up to me that he'll go pick him up and he can just stay over that night.
I knew that he probably didn't want to, so I just sent him a text message to ask him and he says no. I ask why not, and he says that he doesn't really like my dad (my dad doesn't really like anybody I date, seeing how they're guys and I'm a girl and I'm his daughter - so he's just doing the dad thing, which is understandable). So I get really upset, because that's a really shitty excuse. To me, it just sounded like he didn't even want to see me. So after a half an hour of bawling my eyes out, after calming down slighty (enough so you can understand what I'm saying), I call him up and ask him about it. He says that he's sorry that he hurt my feelings, and he didn't know that New Years meant that much to me (bullshit, I told him that I really wanted to see him New Years 3 days before, and had texted him about it at least once). I let the bullshit slide, especially since he told me how shitty he felt about making me cry. Also, his sister's roommate was in tears that night too, because they had to go to the vet and put her cat down (apparently). And he couldn't leave because his dad told him he had to stay at his sister's. So we said our goodbyes yadda yadda, and then say we'll see each other tomorrow.
Tomorrow being today, I heard something that made me even more upset (sure I was happy to see him, and I was having a pretty good day so far, but I was still kind of upset when I saw that I was the only one at my house without a New Years kiss - which is why it meant so much to me, and Guys: the little things are important). So today we hung out with his friend Steve's gf, in an attempt to go and get Steve to hang out too. And then I find out, Tim went to Steve's last night. He went over his friend Steve's house and hung out with him and a bunch of other people til 4 in the morning. He says he had to go back and stay at his sister's, but I'm not completely sure of it. This got me pissed off and upset, because I had to listen to his bullshit excuses as to why he couldn't hang out with me last night and yadda yadda ******* bullshit. We're in the car driving around after Katelyn (Steve's gf) had mentioned something about last night. I just looked at him and went ';Wait, you were at STEVE'S last night?'; And he said ';Yeah for a little while, but I had to go back to Kate's (his sister).';
10 minutes later, I'm still upset, and he just looks at me and goes ';you STILL mad at me about that?'; YES YOU ASSHOLE, OBVIOUSLY YOU CAN TELL BY THE ******* LOOK ON MY FACE. ALSO THE FACT THAT I TOLD YOU NEW YEARS MEANT A LOT TO ME, BUT OHH IT'S OK YOU CAN STAY AT YOUR SISTERS IF YOU WANT - YOU DONT' SAY ******* ';OK!'; YOU GET YOUR *** OVER THERE AND SPEND TIME WITH YOUR GIRL!
******* **** head...
we've been going out for less than 3 months, he just turned 17 and I turn 16 on the 19th. **** like this shouldn't be happening already.
what is your verdict?Why can guys be such assholes? (Kind of a long post - basically a rant)?
1st girl, dont be an *** hole and post saying how you wont read it just so you can get some damn points
that **** is so ******* annoying especially when some1 is just looking for some advice
it sounds to me that he has already lost interest in, im sorry and i know that you don't want to hear that but thats what it looks like.
you should confront him about his feelings toward you and make him give you an honest answer
maybe you should reconsider this relationship if he doesnt want to make any effort with youWhy can guys be such assholes? (Kind of a long post - basically a rant)?
haha sorry im not ganna read it but i agree with you that they are jerks
I AGREE! Guys can be serious a.s.s.h.o.l.e.s!
Come New Years Eve, I'm just getting back from Florida at around 5 and looking forward to the fact that I can actually see him that night (the flight had been delayed, and there was a chance that my grandparents weren't going to let me and my brother fly out cause of the shitty weather in NH). So I call him, and he says that if I can get a ride to his sister's house then we can hang out. I say I'll ask my dad later to see if he can give me a ride, and that I'll call him later. I ask my dad as soon as I get home, and very nicely (which is sort of strange for me, even in these situations) if I can go over his house. He yells at me and says no (because he wanted to drink, which is fine but he had to be so ******* complicated and not tell me til 10 minutes later - note to dad's: give your reason when your kid asks ';why not';, because if you don't and she keeps asking and you just yell at her, it's not really helping the situation). So later that night, I'm upset 'cause I can't see my boyfriend who I haven't seen for a week and a half. My dad's girlfriend apparently talked to him, and she yells up to me that he'll go pick him up and he can just stay over that night.
I knew that he probably didn't want to, so I just sent him a text message to ask him and he says no. I ask why not, and he says that he doesn't really like my dad (my dad doesn't really like anybody I date, seeing how they're guys and I'm a girl and I'm his daughter - so he's just doing the dad thing, which is understandable). So I get really upset, because that's a really shitty excuse. To me, it just sounded like he didn't even want to see me. So after a half an hour of bawling my eyes out, after calming down slighty (enough so you can understand what I'm saying), I call him up and ask him about it. He says that he's sorry that he hurt my feelings, and he didn't know that New Years meant that much to me (bullshit, I told him that I really wanted to see him New Years 3 days before, and had texted him about it at least once). I let the bullshit slide, especially since he told me how shitty he felt about making me cry. Also, his sister's roommate was in tears that night too, because they had to go to the vet and put her cat down (apparently). And he couldn't leave because his dad told him he had to stay at his sister's. So we said our goodbyes yadda yadda, and then say we'll see each other tomorrow.
Tomorrow being today, I heard something that made me even more upset (sure I was happy to see him, and I was having a pretty good day so far, but I was still kind of upset when I saw that I was the only one at my house without a New Years kiss - which is why it meant so much to me, and Guys: the little things are important). So today we hung out with his friend Steve's gf, in an attempt to go and get Steve to hang out too. And then I find out, Tim went to Steve's last night. He went over his friend Steve's house and hung out with him and a bunch of other people til 4 in the morning. He says he had to go back and stay at his sister's, but I'm not completely sure of it. This got me pissed off and upset, because I had to listen to his bullshit excuses as to why he couldn't hang out with me last night and yadda yadda ******* bullshit. We're in the car driving around after Katelyn (Steve's gf) had mentioned something about last night. I just looked at him and went ';Wait, you were at STEVE'S last night?'; And he said ';Yeah for a little while, but I had to go back to Kate's (his sister).';
10 minutes later, I'm still upset, and he just looks at me and goes ';you STILL mad at me about that?'; YES YOU ASSHOLE, OBVIOUSLY YOU CAN TELL BY THE ******* LOOK ON MY FACE. ALSO THE FACT THAT I TOLD YOU NEW YEARS MEANT A LOT TO ME, BUT OHH IT'S OK YOU CAN STAY AT YOUR SISTERS IF YOU WANT - YOU DONT' SAY ******* ';OK!'; YOU GET YOUR *** OVER THERE AND SPEND TIME WITH YOUR GIRL!
******* **** head...
we've been going out for less than 3 months, he just turned 17 and I turn 16 on the 19th. **** like this shouldn't be happening already.
what is your verdict?Why can guys be such assholes? (Kind of a long post - basically a rant)?
1st girl, dont be an *** hole and post saying how you wont read it just so you can get some damn points
that **** is so ******* annoying especially when some1 is just looking for some advice
it sounds to me that he has already lost interest in, im sorry and i know that you don't want to hear that but thats what it looks like.
you should confront him about his feelings toward you and make him give you an honest answer
maybe you should reconsider this relationship if he doesnt want to make any effort with youWhy can guys be such assholes? (Kind of a long post - basically a rant)?
haha sorry im not ganna read it but i agree with you that they are jerks
I AGREE! Guys can be serious a.s.s.h.o.l.e.s!
If we are not to talk about religion here because it is a *RANT* what are we suppose to talk about?
Are we suppose to talk about withcraft or
Cauldrons just what is an appropriate question on religion to ask here, since I receive Violations daily or am accussed of ranting about Jesus Christ?
As a Christian would you stay on this borad if you cannot talk about Jesus Christ?If we are not to talk about religion here because it is a *RANT* what are we suppose to talk about?
I didn't check, but if your Q%26amp;A's profile is public you may want to change it to private.
I will say it's not Atheists persay that are the problem, but it's the little children on here that try to manipulate the system to their advantage.
I try to pop in once or twice a day myself; I have found that there are many here who are sincerely looking for the truth, as well as other Christians who ask questions to other questions.
Don't give up not unless you really feel God is leading you in the direction.
God bless!If we are not to talk about religion here because it is a *RANT* what are we suppose to talk about?
What? Can I borrow your persecution complex for a while?
You can ask questions about religion and Jesus. But there is a difference between asking questions and ranting or preaching. Any religion can ';preach'; - even Atheists can.
For instance - this question you've just asked, borders on a rant. You're expressing your feelings and not really asking others what they think. It's not a bad rant, but it borders on it.
You could rework it as a question, if you said ';What is the difference between a rant and a ';real question';? (When you leave out all the stuff about caultrons and witchcraft and whining about violations - it gets rid of the rant aspect of it)
';If People are not comfortable in what they believe is that why they want other's to shut up? do they react from fear?';
That must be why, daily, I wake up to violation notices on questions that are not violations, right? Because *someone* is afraid that the questions I ask make too much sense and expose the hypocrisy of their beliefs?
Dear, you get violations daily, not because you speak about Jesus, but because you SPEAK rather than ASK. Learn the difference. Dont make a statement - ask a question.
You're not suppose to ';talk'; about anything. This isn't a forum. It is a question/answer site. If you have a actual question, then ask it, but if you don't........if you just want to talk, find a forum.......that's what they are for.
answer: This isn't a discussion board. This is a Q%26amp;A forum - you seldom ask questions that you want answers for. You said yourself - you wish to discuss. That can be done in a discussion forum.
If you wish to know about witchcraft, cauldrons and other religions and are WILLING to actually read answers from viewpoints other than your own - no problem. Preaching and trying to convince people to turn to your point of view is ';ranting';
You need to learn the difference between a question and a rant. Persecution complex and ignorance - what a nasty combination.
You're supposed to ask questions, not post news articles together with passages from your favorite book.
You are not supposed to talk about anything here - you are supposed to ask questions and get answers
Genuine questions, that's what we are here for.
Your 'questions', lately, are nothing but transparent attempts to try and get us to worship Jesus Christ.
It - is - not - working!
You didn't pose a question crimmy, you just starting ranting about your NT and pasting texts from it...if you have a real question then please be my guest but this isnt your pulpit.
Cauldrons just what is an appropriate question on religion to ask here, since I receive Violations daily or am accussed of ranting about Jesus Christ?
As a Christian would you stay on this borad if you cannot talk about Jesus Christ?If we are not to talk about religion here because it is a *RANT* what are we suppose to talk about?
I didn't check, but if your Q%26amp;A's profile is public you may want to change it to private.
I will say it's not Atheists persay that are the problem, but it's the little children on here that try to manipulate the system to their advantage.
I try to pop in once or twice a day myself; I have found that there are many here who are sincerely looking for the truth, as well as other Christians who ask questions to other questions.
Don't give up not unless you really feel God is leading you in the direction.
God bless!If we are not to talk about religion here because it is a *RANT* what are we suppose to talk about?
What? Can I borrow your persecution complex for a while?
You can ask questions about religion and Jesus. But there is a difference between asking questions and ranting or preaching. Any religion can ';preach'; - even Atheists can.
For instance - this question you've just asked, borders on a rant. You're expressing your feelings and not really asking others what they think. It's not a bad rant, but it borders on it.
You could rework it as a question, if you said ';What is the difference between a rant and a ';real question';? (When you leave out all the stuff about caultrons and witchcraft and whining about violations - it gets rid of the rant aspect of it)
';If People are not comfortable in what they believe is that why they want other's to shut up? do they react from fear?';
That must be why, daily, I wake up to violation notices on questions that are not violations, right? Because *someone* is afraid that the questions I ask make too much sense and expose the hypocrisy of their beliefs?
Dear, you get violations daily, not because you speak about Jesus, but because you SPEAK rather than ASK. Learn the difference. Dont make a statement - ask a question.
You're not suppose to ';talk'; about anything. This isn't a forum. It is a question/answer site. If you have a actual question, then ask it, but if you don't........if you just want to talk, find a forum.......that's what they are for.
answer: This isn't a discussion board. This is a Q%26amp;A forum - you seldom ask questions that you want answers for. You said yourself - you wish to discuss. That can be done in a discussion forum.
If you wish to know about witchcraft, cauldrons and other religions and are WILLING to actually read answers from viewpoints other than your own - no problem. Preaching and trying to convince people to turn to your point of view is ';ranting';
You need to learn the difference between a question and a rant. Persecution complex and ignorance - what a nasty combination.
You're supposed to ask questions, not post news articles together with passages from your favorite book.
You are not supposed to talk about anything here - you are supposed to ask questions and get answers
Genuine questions, that's what we are here for.
Your 'questions', lately, are nothing but transparent attempts to try and get us to worship Jesus Christ.
It - is - not - working!
You didn't pose a question crimmy, you just starting ranting about your NT and pasting texts from it...if you have a real question then please be my guest but this isnt your pulpit.
My friend is making me so mad! sorry its long i had to rant..?
sorry its so long but i had to rant..please read though
ok well this summer my friend has been getting on my nerves allot
ok well this summer we both got summer jobs..she works at a camp thats kind of far away and shes gone for weeks on end and comes back for like 3 day every like 4 weeks..i work some where local but, i have a full time job ..2 to 10 at night on :
monday,tuesday,friday,saturday,and sunday..I get wed and thursday off..and i have to leave at 12 to get the bus stop on time .So if you can imagine i have no life right now!
well what really gets on my nerves is when ever shes home which is rare she'll send me text message and acts like i have nothing better to do but, hang with her or spend my whole time texting..a few weeks ago when she first started doing this I not only had work 2 to 10 but i had to go to swim practice from 9 in the morning to 1:30..she knows how busy I'am too..and then she has the nerve to pick out little things in my text message and say im mad at her somehow like this one time..she texted me guess what! and i replyed with ';what?'; and she thought i was mad at her because i put a question mark..
ok does anyone think that seems really stupid..and on myspace i filled out a bulliten and one of the survey questions was ';when was the last time you've seen your top friend?';..and i put ';too long'; then she commented on the buliten saying stuff ';like oh see how it is you don't miss me and stuff';..um when did i ever say that..its getting to the point when i do have time to hang with her i dont want to because, it just pisses me off so much!
Am i out of line or do you think shes being wierd..any views on this would be so nice lol because im gonna go crazy!My friend is making me so mad! sorry its long i had to rant..?
Oh GOSH I hate it when they are picking out everything you say and saying you are the one with the problem, when it is THEM! I have several friends like this right now, way too touchy and annoying! I don't have time for this kind of BS! I just wanted to tell you that you shouldn't spend time with this person while she is acting like this...There are real things going on in your life right now and you don't need MADE-UP problems to have to deal with! Good luck and you are not alone...My friend is making me so mad! sorry its long i had to rant..?
She's no good. She's dramatic about everything...
similar question
MINE.PLEASE?!:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
stop texing and useing bullitens write your friend a letter you know like in the old days before pc, and tell her how you feel,
just ignore her and keep doing what you do... she does seem like she's annoying.
hmm weird friend
ur not bein wrong
i would be made if i were ubeach makeup bad acne
ok well this summer my friend has been getting on my nerves allot
ok well this summer we both got summer jobs..she works at a camp thats kind of far away and shes gone for weeks on end and comes back for like 3 day every like 4 weeks..i work some where local but, i have a full time job ..2 to 10 at night on :
monday,tuesday,friday,saturday,and sunday..I get wed and thursday off..and i have to leave at 12 to get the bus stop on time .So if you can imagine i have no life right now!
well what really gets on my nerves is when ever shes home which is rare she'll send me text message and acts like i have nothing better to do but, hang with her or spend my whole time texting..a few weeks ago when she first started doing this I not only had work 2 to 10 but i had to go to swim practice from 9 in the morning to 1:30..she knows how busy I'am too..and then she has the nerve to pick out little things in my text message and say im mad at her somehow like this one time..she texted me guess what! and i replyed with ';what?'; and she thought i was mad at her because i put a question mark..
ok does anyone think that seems really stupid..and on myspace i filled out a bulliten and one of the survey questions was ';when was the last time you've seen your top friend?';..and i put ';too long'; then she commented on the buliten saying stuff ';like oh see how it is you don't miss me and stuff';..um when did i ever say that..its getting to the point when i do have time to hang with her i dont want to because, it just pisses me off so much!
Am i out of line or do you think shes being wierd..any views on this would be so nice lol because im gonna go crazy!My friend is making me so mad! sorry its long i had to rant..?
Oh GOSH I hate it when they are picking out everything you say and saying you are the one with the problem, when it is THEM! I have several friends like this right now, way too touchy and annoying! I don't have time for this kind of BS! I just wanted to tell you that you shouldn't spend time with this person while she is acting like this...There are real things going on in your life right now and you don't need MADE-UP problems to have to deal with! Good luck and you are not alone...My friend is making me so mad! sorry its long i had to rant..?
She's no good. She's dramatic about everything...
similar question
MINE.PLEASE?!:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
stop texing and useing bullitens write your friend a letter you know like in the old days before pc, and tell her how you feel,
just ignore her and keep doing what you do... she does seem like she's annoying.
hmm weird friend
ur not bein wrong
i would be made if i were u
Why do people here think that putting a ';?'; on the end of their Rant?
Makes it a 'Question'?
This goes for the 'Political' forum and all the rest where there do that.Why do people here think that putting a ';?'; on the end of their Rant?
boobsy- the ? doesn't automatically go in after two paragraphs of somebody whining, just the initial question.
WOW! nice rant boobsy. typical whining liberal gets mad when someone notices the huge foot in her mouth.Why do people here think that putting a ';?'; on the end of their Rant?
Questions such as this don't belong in the Politics forum.
Posted a link to YOU complaining about someone doing what you just did...does that meet the definition of hypocrite to anyone?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Liberalism is a disease that blinds one to REALITY and they think they can do anything to anyone...with immunity.....they yell freedom of speech but fail to realize that even freedom of speech is not free from consequences
You just did it.
';Why do people here think that putting a ';?'; on the end of their Rant?';
Details: Makes it a 'Question'?
Yahoo puts question marks on automatically.
LOL I have to agree with you, I think those that do that think they can get by with it and not get reported if they put the ? at the end of their rant.
So they can rant without getting a violation.
Idiocy
ignorance
OOOOPS.
You put a ? on the end of your Rant.
yea ignorance, well they just want there ? noticed
Because they can.
This goes for the 'Political' forum and all the rest where there do that.Why do people here think that putting a ';?'; on the end of their Rant?
boobsy- the ? doesn't automatically go in after two paragraphs of somebody whining, just the initial question.
WOW! nice rant boobsy. typical whining liberal gets mad when someone notices the huge foot in her mouth.Why do people here think that putting a ';?'; on the end of their Rant?
Questions such as this don't belong in the Politics forum.
Posted a link to YOU complaining about someone doing what you just did...does that meet the definition of hypocrite to anyone?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Liberalism is a disease that blinds one to REALITY and they think they can do anything to anyone...with immunity.....they yell freedom of speech but fail to realize that even freedom of speech is not free from consequences
You just did it.
';Why do people here think that putting a ';?'; on the end of their Rant?';
Details: Makes it a 'Question'?
Yahoo puts question marks on automatically.
LOL I have to agree with you, I think those that do that think they can get by with it and not get reported if they put the ? at the end of their rant.
So they can rant without getting a violation.
Idiocy
ignorance
OOOOPS.
You put a ? on the end of your Rant.
yea ignorance, well they just want there ? noticed
Because they can.
I need help talking to my mom about something. (I also need to rant. D:)?
Recently (or I've just been beginning to notice) my mom has started acting like a hypocrite. She treats me like I'm in pre-school even though I'm in sixth grade, but says that HER mom treats her like a twelve year old, (which offended me a little because I'm eleven,) and when I tried to talk to her about how I felt when she said that, she screamed her head off at me (and she tells me and my brother never to raise their voices at some one.) And she TAUGHT ME that if some one is yelling, I shouldn't get involved. So I told her, ';I'm not going to talk to you if you're going to yell. If you would please stop interrupting me then I would be able to tell you what I'm trying to say so that you can understand it, but it's difficult to talk when you're not listening to me.'; But then she yelled more and cursed (which she also told me also never to do.) So I want a way to talk to her without her biting my head off about this.
I love my mom, she's AWESOME, but her parents always used to yell around her and start fights and all, and her brothers and sisters learned to do this too, so now I have grandparents, an aunt, and an uncle, with anger issues. (My other aunt is normal.) She has a little trouble controlling her anger, and she does REALLY well, but some times it gets out of hand. I mean, she tries so hard not to have us grow up like she did, but whenever she doesn't understand something, she makes you feel uncomfortable and pressured, and it makes it even harder to explain, so she gets angrier, and it's just this big, vicious circle.
Time for a big rant!
For some reason, I always feel like I have to keep proving that I am responsible and old enough to understand everything, or get the ';big picture.'; Because of this, I always get DRIVEN UP THE WALL when some one treats me like a kid, or tells me that I'm too young, or says that I wouldn't understand. I always feel annoyed when some one acts superior to me just because they're older. I hate it when some one lies to me or doesn't tell me something because they think I'm too delicate to handle the information, just because I've had a rough life so far. grown ups always treat me special and I DISPISE it. But really, all the drama that's happened has just made me just step into reality earlier. My friends don't feel this way, and I want to know just WHY. Like, one of my friends thinks that she can raise 10 grand to get a horse. Not going to happen. Some one else thinks that they're going to become a famous singer and tour the world, and cure cancer. (That
sort of speaks for itself)
I'm done! :D And just a heads up, don't you DARE say that I'm too young for this site. You and I both totally know that you lied about your age at least ONCE online.
So, thanks. I'd appreciate the help. (And I hope your eyes aren't hurting from reading this for so long. :P)I need help talking to my mom about something. (I also need to rant. D:)?
You seem very mature for your age.
As you grow older, you will learn more and more about how hypocritical your parents can be. But all you can really do about it is accept it.
And I can relate to you on the whole ';being treated like a kid'; issue. I'm 16, and still get treated like I'm stupid and naive just because I'm young. People will use the fact that they're older than you to their advantage (for example, when arguing with you, they'll always use the ';I'm older than you, so I must be smarter than you, and I'm right.'; argument.)
The best way to deal with it is to just continue to be mature and not get angry about it. It may be tough, but if you get worked up over something in an argument, people will also use that against you.
You'll find that being more mature and more realistic than other people your age is frustrating. Because you're in this age group of people, you'll instantly be seen as they are; young, stupid, and naive. You'll be frustrated with people your age... ah, I've experienced exactly what you're going through. It's no fun, but overall, being mature is a great personality trait.
(And I commend you for your great spelling and grammar! Seriously, I'm so sick of dealing with people's lack of a grip on the English language...)
As for talking to your mum, it's tough dealing with parents like that... I'd just continue to do what you're doing, and eventually she'll see that you're acting like more of an adult than she is. I need help talking to my mom about something. (I also need to rant. D:)?
too late my eyes hurt.
whats your question?
WOW, are you sure you're 11? You are a very smart kid, I don't think that you are at all too young to be on this site. If I were you I would show what you just typed here to your Mother. Or, if you think it's a bad idea and she will get mad, then just keep trying your best to be the mature one. Good Luck!!!
Sometime soon, when everybody has cooled off a little bit, ask your mom to set aside a time to talk to you (and also perhaps your brother, if you want). Once everybody is calm, start off by telling her that you love her.Then be as specific as you can-'; Mom, when you (do whatever) I feel (however). Tell her specific ways that you are responsible. Then listen. You sound awfully aware for an 11 year old; articulate, too. Some unsolicited advice- keep up your writing (if you enjoy it).You are good at it.
Sorry to hear about the whole mom thing, how does your dad handle all of this with your mother, maybe get your dad to talk to her about this and how it makes you and your brother feel. and don't it feel good to get it all out there. I hope that this helped, but other then that, hope things work out for you =)
Wow! Well first off I am sorry you are going through this! My Mom's Father my grandfather abused my Mom and all my Aunts when they were growing up and in return it made my Mom well....lets just say she had a temper and would always yell at me and my sister just like how you are describing. My best advise for you is that on a ';good day'; when she isn't mad about something and when it is just you and her just sit done and say nicely and calmly ';Mom I want to talk about some stuff'; It worked for me. When I tried to get her to understand me or listen while she was mad or yelling it never worked but when i got her on a good day everything worked out fine. I am 28 now and my Mom is my best friend. Yes you are young but you need to relise that your mom has gone through stuff and she is only human too. Again just sit her down on a day when there is no fighting and maybe it will work for you.
well i understand you sometimes my mom acts like that to but i love her and i understand cause my father just died a year ago and its to much work for her but sometimes she also gets me annoyed. But try understand her as much as you can try to understand her and try to work it out ok good luck oh and i love the way that you describe your problem your a good writer Oh! and sorry for my grammar
im in sixth grade whht skool not 2 get off da subject. did she just like now start. r ur rents divorced? that culd mean she have been going through stress. is she like still in skool or something like dat? stress. did some 1 die close to hur or do u have an older sibling that went to colledge or moved outa da house?
oh kool. i'm 11 too! ok so now to answer the question: yh that is hypocritical. i get mad too when people tell me i'm too young or watever. i'm a smart kid and i know it. i lied once. ha, said i was 14. got away with it too. and i dont think i'm to young for this cuz i have a youtube and ect... and well we're the same age so its no big deal. maybe your mom is afraid that you're growing up? i briefly went through your question cuz it was long as hell! hope i answered correctly!
I know how you feel, I think we have all been there, some sooner than others. You do sound pretty mature for an 11 year old, but please take my advice on this...I know it sounds corny, but I am 22 now and married with a child, and though I love my life, sometimes I really miss being your age. Don't try to grow up so fast. One day you will wish that people didn't come to you because they know you are old enough to understand. The ';big picture'; is probably referring to life away from home, bills, cars, children, things like that, and yes, I'm sure you know a lot about these things, but there are just some things that you can't completely understand the ';big picture'; unless you have actually been there (for example, ever tried to explain how great or aweful something at school was to your mom but they didn't understand the full extent? It's cuz they weren't there, hadn't done it themselves...it's the same concept) So maybe you are mature for your age, but please just treasure this time...go listen to the song ';You're Gonna Miss This'; by Trace Adkins...you remind me of the girl he is singing about.
sounds like you're way too mature for your mom. sometimes, it's better just to take it when she dishes it. try not to get upset at the moment and just tell urself that she's only taking her anger out on you. sounds to me like you're doing nothing wrong.
as far as trying to change her attitude, you might want to try to approach her aobut it when she's in a good mood, not when you guys are in the middle of an arguement. if you don't feel like doing that, or don't wanna ruin a good mood (i dont blame you.) you might even wanna try writing her a letter. might sound a little corny but all you have to do, is calmy write down your thoughts and let her know how you feel. tell her you think she's awesome and everything (nice things can never hurt!) and then just leave it in her room or in the kitchen somewhere where she'll find it. i guess it's best ur not around when she's reading it this way she has time to calm herself and think through a response. (try giving it to her before you go to school?). i just think at your age (dont get offended!! i'm not calling you young at all, you're my brother's age and a lot more mature than him!) it's a crucial time to make sure the relationship with your mom is not too tense. it's the beginning of a long road and u guys should try to be strong!
hope this helps! good luck and don't let anyone tell you ur too young! (unless it's illegal?)
I love my mom, she's AWESOME, but her parents always used to yell around her and start fights and all, and her brothers and sisters learned to do this too, so now I have grandparents, an aunt, and an uncle, with anger issues. (My other aunt is normal.) She has a little trouble controlling her anger, and she does REALLY well, but some times it gets out of hand. I mean, she tries so hard not to have us grow up like she did, but whenever she doesn't understand something, she makes you feel uncomfortable and pressured, and it makes it even harder to explain, so she gets angrier, and it's just this big, vicious circle.
Time for a big rant!
For some reason, I always feel like I have to keep proving that I am responsible and old enough to understand everything, or get the ';big picture.'; Because of this, I always get DRIVEN UP THE WALL when some one treats me like a kid, or tells me that I'm too young, or says that I wouldn't understand. I always feel annoyed when some one acts superior to me just because they're older. I hate it when some one lies to me or doesn't tell me something because they think I'm too delicate to handle the information, just because I've had a rough life so far. grown ups always treat me special and I DISPISE it. But really, all the drama that's happened has just made me just step into reality earlier. My friends don't feel this way, and I want to know just WHY. Like, one of my friends thinks that she can raise 10 grand to get a horse. Not going to happen. Some one else thinks that they're going to become a famous singer and tour the world, and cure cancer. (That
sort of speaks for itself)
I'm done! :D And just a heads up, don't you DARE say that I'm too young for this site. You and I both totally know that you lied about your age at least ONCE online.
So, thanks. I'd appreciate the help. (And I hope your eyes aren't hurting from reading this for so long. :P)I need help talking to my mom about something. (I also need to rant. D:)?
You seem very mature for your age.
As you grow older, you will learn more and more about how hypocritical your parents can be. But all you can really do about it is accept it.
And I can relate to you on the whole ';being treated like a kid'; issue. I'm 16, and still get treated like I'm stupid and naive just because I'm young. People will use the fact that they're older than you to their advantage (for example, when arguing with you, they'll always use the ';I'm older than you, so I must be smarter than you, and I'm right.'; argument.)
The best way to deal with it is to just continue to be mature and not get angry about it. It may be tough, but if you get worked up over something in an argument, people will also use that against you.
You'll find that being more mature and more realistic than other people your age is frustrating. Because you're in this age group of people, you'll instantly be seen as they are; young, stupid, and naive. You'll be frustrated with people your age... ah, I've experienced exactly what you're going through. It's no fun, but overall, being mature is a great personality trait.
(And I commend you for your great spelling and grammar! Seriously, I'm so sick of dealing with people's lack of a grip on the English language...)
As for talking to your mum, it's tough dealing with parents like that... I'd just continue to do what you're doing, and eventually she'll see that you're acting like more of an adult than she is. I need help talking to my mom about something. (I also need to rant. D:)?
too late my eyes hurt.
whats your question?
WOW, are you sure you're 11? You are a very smart kid, I don't think that you are at all too young to be on this site. If I were you I would show what you just typed here to your Mother. Or, if you think it's a bad idea and she will get mad, then just keep trying your best to be the mature one. Good Luck!!!
Sometime soon, when everybody has cooled off a little bit, ask your mom to set aside a time to talk to you (and also perhaps your brother, if you want). Once everybody is calm, start off by telling her that you love her.Then be as specific as you can-'; Mom, when you (do whatever) I feel (however). Tell her specific ways that you are responsible. Then listen. You sound awfully aware for an 11 year old; articulate, too. Some unsolicited advice- keep up your writing (if you enjoy it).You are good at it.
Sorry to hear about the whole mom thing, how does your dad handle all of this with your mother, maybe get your dad to talk to her about this and how it makes you and your brother feel. and don't it feel good to get it all out there. I hope that this helped, but other then that, hope things work out for you =)
Wow! Well first off I am sorry you are going through this! My Mom's Father my grandfather abused my Mom and all my Aunts when they were growing up and in return it made my Mom well....lets just say she had a temper and would always yell at me and my sister just like how you are describing. My best advise for you is that on a ';good day'; when she isn't mad about something and when it is just you and her just sit done and say nicely and calmly ';Mom I want to talk about some stuff'; It worked for me. When I tried to get her to understand me or listen while she was mad or yelling it never worked but when i got her on a good day everything worked out fine. I am 28 now and my Mom is my best friend. Yes you are young but you need to relise that your mom has gone through stuff and she is only human too. Again just sit her down on a day when there is no fighting and maybe it will work for you.
well i understand you sometimes my mom acts like that to but i love her and i understand cause my father just died a year ago and its to much work for her but sometimes she also gets me annoyed. But try understand her as much as you can try to understand her and try to work it out ok good luck oh and i love the way that you describe your problem your a good writer Oh! and sorry for my grammar
im in sixth grade whht skool not 2 get off da subject. did she just like now start. r ur rents divorced? that culd mean she have been going through stress. is she like still in skool or something like dat? stress. did some 1 die close to hur or do u have an older sibling that went to colledge or moved outa da house?
oh kool. i'm 11 too! ok so now to answer the question: yh that is hypocritical. i get mad too when people tell me i'm too young or watever. i'm a smart kid and i know it. i lied once. ha, said i was 14. got away with it too. and i dont think i'm to young for this cuz i have a youtube and ect... and well we're the same age so its no big deal. maybe your mom is afraid that you're growing up? i briefly went through your question cuz it was long as hell! hope i answered correctly!
I know how you feel, I think we have all been there, some sooner than others. You do sound pretty mature for an 11 year old, but please take my advice on this...I know it sounds corny, but I am 22 now and married with a child, and though I love my life, sometimes I really miss being your age. Don't try to grow up so fast. One day you will wish that people didn't come to you because they know you are old enough to understand. The ';big picture'; is probably referring to life away from home, bills, cars, children, things like that, and yes, I'm sure you know a lot about these things, but there are just some things that you can't completely understand the ';big picture'; unless you have actually been there (for example, ever tried to explain how great or aweful something at school was to your mom but they didn't understand the full extent? It's cuz they weren't there, hadn't done it themselves...it's the same concept) So maybe you are mature for your age, but please just treasure this time...go listen to the song ';You're Gonna Miss This'; by Trace Adkins...you remind me of the girl he is singing about.
sounds like you're way too mature for your mom. sometimes, it's better just to take it when she dishes it. try not to get upset at the moment and just tell urself that she's only taking her anger out on you. sounds to me like you're doing nothing wrong.
as far as trying to change her attitude, you might want to try to approach her aobut it when she's in a good mood, not when you guys are in the middle of an arguement. if you don't feel like doing that, or don't wanna ruin a good mood (i dont blame you.) you might even wanna try writing her a letter. might sound a little corny but all you have to do, is calmy write down your thoughts and let her know how you feel. tell her you think she's awesome and everything (nice things can never hurt!) and then just leave it in her room or in the kitchen somewhere where she'll find it. i guess it's best ur not around when she's reading it this way she has time to calm herself and think through a response. (try giving it to her before you go to school?). i just think at your age (dont get offended!! i'm not calling you young at all, you're my brother's age and a lot more mature than him!) it's a crucial time to make sure the relationship with your mom is not too tense. it's the beginning of a long road and u guys should try to be strong!
hope this helps! good luck and don't let anyone tell you ur too young! (unless it's illegal?)
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Does anyone else out there have a prankster for a husband? (Warning: long rant!)?
Okay, here's the deal. My husband and I have been together almost 10 years, married for 6. We have a blended family that includes three children.
Long story short, he's driving me bananas.
At least two or three times, every single day, he plays pranks on me. These include such lame things as sneaking up on me in the shower and yelling ';RAR'; so loud that I jump out of my skin, calling me at work and pretending to be someone else (i.e. ';this is the chocolate factory. Your order is ready...), knocking on the wall so I think someone is knocking at the door, saying embarrassing things to me very loudly in a crowded store (i.e. ';those tampons you are buying are soooo huge!! How will we fit them in?';), and pulling down my pajama pants every time I walk by. Oh, those are just a few of his tactics. I never know what he's got up his sleeve.
He's always played pranks since I've known him, but have happened more and more frequently as the years have gone on. I can enjoy the occasional prank as well as anyone, but c'mon, it's gotten out of control. I'm always on the lookout for what he's planning next. It's exhausting. And he's no kid. The man is 35 for crying out loud. I feel like he's my fourth child and definitely the worst behaved!
Can anyone give me some tips for dealing with this or getting him to tone it down a bit? I really am at my wit's end. The first two or three times it was funny. 56,000 times later, not so much.
I just envision the two of us in wheelchairs in the rest home and my husband will be plotting how to sneak over to unlock the brakes on my wheelchair so I take a wild, crazy ride down the wheelchair ramp. Will the madness ever end!?!
So, short of tasering him within one inch of his life, how can I get him to stop or keep his pranks to a minimum. Please don't say talk to him about it. I have until I'm blue in the face and he just laughs and it seems to egg him on. Any other suggestions appreciated. Even revenge. Yes. I've come to that point.
Thanks for reading my long rant and please help me out here people!!Does anyone else out there have a prankster for a husband? (Warning: long rant!)?
I'm wondering if your husband's behaviour is not simply abuse. Try reading the book by Lundy Bancroft: Why does he do that? Inside the minds of angry and controlling men. Also, a book about boundaries would be helpful, you could try, When to say yes, when to say no, to take control of your life, by Townsend and Cloud. You deserve to be well treated.Does anyone else out there have a prankster for a husband? (Warning: long rant!)?
Honestly, I'd do nothing except walk out of the house and run off somewhere for 24 hours. Take the kids if you need to, but just leave. Okay maybe not 24 hours, but just remove yourself. This isn't funny, and neither is he.
BAHAHA he sounds like Michael from The Office!!!
My advice? LAUGH!
Sorry, I'm the prankster in my house. The element of surprise keeps us both young! :D
lol
my GF is just like him
she pants me and stuff
but i love her so i forgive
her
i say you start doing the same
like if he buys condoms
say THOSE CONDOMS ARE TO BIG 4 YOU lol
Mine is a prankster, but not daily like yours. But, sad news is, he's much older than your husband and hasn't changed. I would go with revenge. And, when he scares you, make it a knee jerk reaction to punch him. That will stop some of that. Mine used to like to stick his finger in my mouth when I yawned. I bit it a few times. That stopped that one. It can be done, you just have to get creative with your reactions. As far as the store, don't buy those things when he's around, or tell him you don't want to be seen at the store with him b/c he'll behave worse than the kids there.
Firstly - He sounds like a funny, loving guy. I think most people will enjoy your husband to a certain point.
My husband used to be like that - at times even worse. Then something happened: He was having fun on a quad bike and drove it into a wall. We immediately ran to him to check if he was okay. It looked like he was passed out, but always being the prankster, none of us believed that he really got hurt and thought that he was joking AGAIN.
I teased and said that I'm going to phone the ambulance service, then I threw dirt in his mouth (thinking that this will make him respond and stop acting). We moved him around, turned him on his side ect (things that can really injure a person in this situation). The call went through to the ambulance service and still he didn't do anything. It was only then that I discovered that he wasn't acting like always.
I was in a panic because all I could think of is how I'm going to explain the dirt in his mouth and nose when they come to take him to hospital. Luckily for him he didn't sustain any serious injuries and was taken for a mild concussion. After that - he turned the brakes on pranks, because it backfired on him.
The point that I'm trying to make - never cry wolf. The one time that he's going to need you to believe him, you're not going to.
Could be worse. You could be married to me. LOL.
He keeps doing it because however wearisome you find it sometimes, basically you love it. Fundamentally the challenge of every marriage--that exactly those things that draw us to someone are eventually gonna become those things that drive us crazy. The only thing that I can suggest is to look at what it is you're doing to enable--whether some of what you're putting out encourages him, and changing your own behavior at times to channel his.
Either that or keep a bucket of water next to the bed for the next time you wake up with a flaming match between your toes....LOL!
Tell him you need to have a serious talk. Then when the 2 of you are alone tell him you've been having an affair with someone else and you are pregnant with his child. Then after he's so upset tell him it was just a prank to show him how much his pranks bother you. good luck!
sounds awful. maybe you should just print this rant out and show him that he's driven you insane to the point of asking strangers online how to deal with your relationship.
or maybe tell him you've went to the doctor's and discovered that you've developed some exotically rare neurotically related nerve disorder due to the frequent stress of dealing with his pranks and that the next sudden prank may lead to a fatal heart attack or stroke. then tell him you're eloping with a less immature man and taking the kids with you.
hahahahaha!!!!!! im so sorry he does that but maybe if you get him back by doing exactly what he does to you. or just ignore it. either way, he cant prank you forever (though the wheelchair thing may come true..) so try to relax, hes just trying to make you laugh. best of luck!
look... my advice is... if you ask him to back off and if he stops YOU WILL MISS IT SOMEDAY.... such behaviour keeps the marriage alive... you just have to see the bright side of it.... i suggest you give him a taste of his own medicine.... seriously think of something.... he will get the hint and sober a lil... right now he is aggressive cause you arent fighting back
Sounds fun - but I guess after awhile it would get a bit stale...I just had to laugh because it reminded me of some of the crazy pranks my husband did (long ago when we were first married): when he came to pick me up one day from work, every time I would reach for the door handle he would move the car just out of my reach - did this about 10x in a row, very annoying! Also embarrassed the h*ll out of me one Sat. morning, I was taking the laundry to the central bldg. of our apartment complex where the machines were %26amp; had to walk across this huge parking area. It was early but there were some guys in the lot %26amp; he SCREAMS out from our apartment window ';you get up here %26amp; put your panties back on!'; I almost died I was so embarrassed!
Sorry I don't have any suggestions on how to make your hubby stop except to tell him that it's seriously starting to bother you, but thx for the laughs. Good luck!
My husband is a little like that too, although not near to the extent that yours is. My advice is, pretend like it doesn't bother you. Probably if he doesn't get a rise out of you, it will take the fun out of it for him. Next time you put your pj's on, put a pair of long johns or something under them so he doesn't get a free show, and when he pulls them down, simply stop, pull them back up, and don't say one word. Just go on about your business. Once it isn't fun for him anymore, he will probably knock it off.
you could even tell him that for every prank he does to you, you're going to do something 3x's worse 3x's. he pulls your pajama pants down? pull his pants down in public three times. he yells ';those tampons are so huge!';? you yell ';i wish we could get the x-large condoms, but...[looking to his crotch]...guess not!'; 3 times.
you may have to keep it up because i'm sure he will up his games too, but in the end, one of you will get tired and you CANT let it be you. wear him down with foolishness. when you see him finally getting tired of it, say ';SEE how you make ME feel?? Can we call a truce??';
I get caught up pulling a few things on my wife that I hear about, but I feel that your husband has gone way over the top. He's done things that I would be embarrassed to have witnessed. But you are up a tree, and the sad part is he is passing along a very bad trait to your kids. They will not know what is appropriate behavior with a role model like that. Do you have a good friend that you can confide in that your husband might listen to? It may be one of the few ways out of this. The other is consoling. That would be better if he would go, but then he doesn't see it as a problem, does he. It does come under the heading of verbal abuse. Wave that under his nose and see if he can get a good sniff of it. Otherwise for your own health and that of your children you might have to leave for him to get the message. He's not 16 anymore. good luck
You might have to accept that you've married a clown. But you could still try drawing a line - for instance, he shouldn't be embarrassing you in public. And pulling down your pants? I am going to assume there's no kids around for that! Have you considered pranking him back? Or would he think it's funny? This is such a sucky situation - he thinks he's being funny, so if you chew him out for it, then he can just say ';Oh, i'm joking, you can't take a joke!'; Damn him for putting you in this spot!
I don't know if any of my advice will be anything resembling helpful, but for what's it's worth, i feel your pain!
Long story short, he's driving me bananas.
At least two or three times, every single day, he plays pranks on me. These include such lame things as sneaking up on me in the shower and yelling ';RAR'; so loud that I jump out of my skin, calling me at work and pretending to be someone else (i.e. ';this is the chocolate factory. Your order is ready...), knocking on the wall so I think someone is knocking at the door, saying embarrassing things to me very loudly in a crowded store (i.e. ';those tampons you are buying are soooo huge!! How will we fit them in?';), and pulling down my pajama pants every time I walk by. Oh, those are just a few of his tactics. I never know what he's got up his sleeve.
He's always played pranks since I've known him, but have happened more and more frequently as the years have gone on. I can enjoy the occasional prank as well as anyone, but c'mon, it's gotten out of control. I'm always on the lookout for what he's planning next. It's exhausting. And he's no kid. The man is 35 for crying out loud. I feel like he's my fourth child and definitely the worst behaved!
Can anyone give me some tips for dealing with this or getting him to tone it down a bit? I really am at my wit's end. The first two or three times it was funny. 56,000 times later, not so much.
I just envision the two of us in wheelchairs in the rest home and my husband will be plotting how to sneak over to unlock the brakes on my wheelchair so I take a wild, crazy ride down the wheelchair ramp. Will the madness ever end!?!
So, short of tasering him within one inch of his life, how can I get him to stop or keep his pranks to a minimum. Please don't say talk to him about it. I have until I'm blue in the face and he just laughs and it seems to egg him on. Any other suggestions appreciated. Even revenge. Yes. I've come to that point.
Thanks for reading my long rant and please help me out here people!!Does anyone else out there have a prankster for a husband? (Warning: long rant!)?
I'm wondering if your husband's behaviour is not simply abuse. Try reading the book by Lundy Bancroft: Why does he do that? Inside the minds of angry and controlling men. Also, a book about boundaries would be helpful, you could try, When to say yes, when to say no, to take control of your life, by Townsend and Cloud. You deserve to be well treated.Does anyone else out there have a prankster for a husband? (Warning: long rant!)?
Honestly, I'd do nothing except walk out of the house and run off somewhere for 24 hours. Take the kids if you need to, but just leave. Okay maybe not 24 hours, but just remove yourself. This isn't funny, and neither is he.
BAHAHA he sounds like Michael from The Office!!!
My advice? LAUGH!
Sorry, I'm the prankster in my house. The element of surprise keeps us both young! :D
lol
my GF is just like him
she pants me and stuff
but i love her so i forgive
her
i say you start doing the same
like if he buys condoms
say THOSE CONDOMS ARE TO BIG 4 YOU lol
Mine is a prankster, but not daily like yours. But, sad news is, he's much older than your husband and hasn't changed. I would go with revenge. And, when he scares you, make it a knee jerk reaction to punch him. That will stop some of that. Mine used to like to stick his finger in my mouth when I yawned. I bit it a few times. That stopped that one. It can be done, you just have to get creative with your reactions. As far as the store, don't buy those things when he's around, or tell him you don't want to be seen at the store with him b/c he'll behave worse than the kids there.
Firstly - He sounds like a funny, loving guy. I think most people will enjoy your husband to a certain point.
My husband used to be like that - at times even worse. Then something happened: He was having fun on a quad bike and drove it into a wall. We immediately ran to him to check if he was okay. It looked like he was passed out, but always being the prankster, none of us believed that he really got hurt and thought that he was joking AGAIN.
I teased and said that I'm going to phone the ambulance service, then I threw dirt in his mouth (thinking that this will make him respond and stop acting). We moved him around, turned him on his side ect (things that can really injure a person in this situation). The call went through to the ambulance service and still he didn't do anything. It was only then that I discovered that he wasn't acting like always.
I was in a panic because all I could think of is how I'm going to explain the dirt in his mouth and nose when they come to take him to hospital. Luckily for him he didn't sustain any serious injuries and was taken for a mild concussion. After that - he turned the brakes on pranks, because it backfired on him.
The point that I'm trying to make - never cry wolf. The one time that he's going to need you to believe him, you're not going to.
Could be worse. You could be married to me. LOL.
He keeps doing it because however wearisome you find it sometimes, basically you love it. Fundamentally the challenge of every marriage--that exactly those things that draw us to someone are eventually gonna become those things that drive us crazy. The only thing that I can suggest is to look at what it is you're doing to enable--whether some of what you're putting out encourages him, and changing your own behavior at times to channel his.
Either that or keep a bucket of water next to the bed for the next time you wake up with a flaming match between your toes....LOL!
Tell him you need to have a serious talk. Then when the 2 of you are alone tell him you've been having an affair with someone else and you are pregnant with his child. Then after he's so upset tell him it was just a prank to show him how much his pranks bother you. good luck!
sounds awful. maybe you should just print this rant out and show him that he's driven you insane to the point of asking strangers online how to deal with your relationship.
or maybe tell him you've went to the doctor's and discovered that you've developed some exotically rare neurotically related nerve disorder due to the frequent stress of dealing with his pranks and that the next sudden prank may lead to a fatal heart attack or stroke. then tell him you're eloping with a less immature man and taking the kids with you.
hahahahaha!!!!!! im so sorry he does that but maybe if you get him back by doing exactly what he does to you. or just ignore it. either way, he cant prank you forever (though the wheelchair thing may come true..) so try to relax, hes just trying to make you laugh. best of luck!
look... my advice is... if you ask him to back off and if he stops YOU WILL MISS IT SOMEDAY.... such behaviour keeps the marriage alive... you just have to see the bright side of it.... i suggest you give him a taste of his own medicine.... seriously think of something.... he will get the hint and sober a lil... right now he is aggressive cause you arent fighting back
Sounds fun - but I guess after awhile it would get a bit stale...I just had to laugh because it reminded me of some of the crazy pranks my husband did (long ago when we were first married): when he came to pick me up one day from work, every time I would reach for the door handle he would move the car just out of my reach - did this about 10x in a row, very annoying! Also embarrassed the h*ll out of me one Sat. morning, I was taking the laundry to the central bldg. of our apartment complex where the machines were %26amp; had to walk across this huge parking area. It was early but there were some guys in the lot %26amp; he SCREAMS out from our apartment window ';you get up here %26amp; put your panties back on!'; I almost died I was so embarrassed!
Sorry I don't have any suggestions on how to make your hubby stop except to tell him that it's seriously starting to bother you, but thx for the laughs. Good luck!
My husband is a little like that too, although not near to the extent that yours is. My advice is, pretend like it doesn't bother you. Probably if he doesn't get a rise out of you, it will take the fun out of it for him. Next time you put your pj's on, put a pair of long johns or something under them so he doesn't get a free show, and when he pulls them down, simply stop, pull them back up, and don't say one word. Just go on about your business. Once it isn't fun for him anymore, he will probably knock it off.
you could even tell him that for every prank he does to you, you're going to do something 3x's worse 3x's. he pulls your pajama pants down? pull his pants down in public three times. he yells ';those tampons are so huge!';? you yell ';i wish we could get the x-large condoms, but...[looking to his crotch]...guess not!'; 3 times.
you may have to keep it up because i'm sure he will up his games too, but in the end, one of you will get tired and you CANT let it be you. wear him down with foolishness. when you see him finally getting tired of it, say ';SEE how you make ME feel?? Can we call a truce??';
I get caught up pulling a few things on my wife that I hear about, but I feel that your husband has gone way over the top. He's done things that I would be embarrassed to have witnessed. But you are up a tree, and the sad part is he is passing along a very bad trait to your kids. They will not know what is appropriate behavior with a role model like that. Do you have a good friend that you can confide in that your husband might listen to? It may be one of the few ways out of this. The other is consoling. That would be better if he would go, but then he doesn't see it as a problem, does he. It does come under the heading of verbal abuse. Wave that under his nose and see if he can get a good sniff of it. Otherwise for your own health and that of your children you might have to leave for him to get the message. He's not 16 anymore. good luck
You might have to accept that you've married a clown. But you could still try drawing a line - for instance, he shouldn't be embarrassing you in public. And pulling down your pants? I am going to assume there's no kids around for that! Have you considered pranking him back? Or would he think it's funny? This is such a sucky situation - he thinks he's being funny, so if you chew him out for it, then he can just say ';Oh, i'm joking, you can't take a joke!'; Damn him for putting you in this spot!
I don't know if any of my advice will be anything resembling helpful, but for what's it's worth, i feel your pain!
The Times Exploits Justice O'Connor's Husband's Medical Condition for Political Rant?
The Times Exploits Justice O'Connor's Husband's Medical Condition for Political Rant
I have to say, this little L.A.Times editorial really takes the cake for insensitivity. It should receive some sort of award for being one of the most gauche pieces I've seen from the extreme leftists masquerading as ';journalists'; for a long, long time. Yes, the Times deserves condemnation for exploiting someone's tragedy to make a mere political point.
In ';Sandra Day O'Connor's loss, and ours,'; the Times laments that because of the former Justice's husband's Alzheimer's disease, Sandra Day quit the bench so we lost her to the court and that loss has resulted in the court being ';radically tilted to the right.'; Imagine exploiting John O'Connor's disease like this? If a Republican had written this editorial, imagine the hate that would be spewed against him?
This is really a shocking editorial.:
http://www.latimes.com/news/printedition鈥?/a>The Times Exploits Justice O'Connor's Husband's Medical Condition for Political Rant?
That is your negative and politically driven interpretation of that editorial. To me they just stated a political fact, didn't gloat about her husband's illness, nor criticize her decision.I read the editorial as a homage to Justice O'Connor and agree with its content.The Times Exploits Justice O'Connor's Husband's Medical Condition for Political Rant?
No, it is not exploitation.
Also, you did not have to say this, Warner Todd Huston did.
I read the same yester morning. I didn't get as upset as you but it definitely struck as poor and n bad taste. Elsewhere in the same paper there was articles about the cut back at LA Times to save money. I thought there would be a good place to start.
I have to say, this little L.A.Times editorial really takes the cake for insensitivity. It should receive some sort of award for being one of the most gauche pieces I've seen from the extreme leftists masquerading as ';journalists'; for a long, long time. Yes, the Times deserves condemnation for exploiting someone's tragedy to make a mere political point.
In ';Sandra Day O'Connor's loss, and ours,'; the Times laments that because of the former Justice's husband's Alzheimer's disease, Sandra Day quit the bench so we lost her to the court and that loss has resulted in the court being ';radically tilted to the right.'; Imagine exploiting John O'Connor's disease like this? If a Republican had written this editorial, imagine the hate that would be spewed against him?
This is really a shocking editorial.:
http://www.latimes.com/news/printedition鈥?/a>The Times Exploits Justice O'Connor's Husband's Medical Condition for Political Rant?
That is your negative and politically driven interpretation of that editorial. To me they just stated a political fact, didn't gloat about her husband's illness, nor criticize her decision.I read the editorial as a homage to Justice O'Connor and agree with its content.The Times Exploits Justice O'Connor's Husband's Medical Condition for Political Rant?
No, it is not exploitation.
Also, you did not have to say this, Warner Todd Huston did.
I read the same yester morning. I didn't get as upset as you but it definitely struck as poor and n bad taste. Elsewhere in the same paper there was articles about the cut back at LA Times to save money. I thought there would be a good place to start.
Will you continue to support Duane ';Dog'; Chapman show even after his racist rant?
Production of the Hawaii-based reality show ';Dog the Bounty Hunter'; has been suspended after the show's star, Duane ';Dog'; Chapman, made repeated racial slurs in a tape-recorded phone conversation.
The A%26amp;E television network said it stopped production while it investigates the comments by Chapman, who runs Da Kine Bail Bonds in downtown Honolulu and whose appeal as a folk hero has been heightened by the three-year-old show.
The tape was obtained by the National Enquirer and published on its Web site on Wednesday. On the tape, an enraged Chapman uses profanities and a racial slur while talking about his son's girlfriend, who is African American. The Enquirer did not say how it obtained the tape and it was not clear who Chapman was talking to.
The recording can be heard on CNN's websiteWill you continue to support Duane ';Dog'; Chapman show even after his racist rant?
I didn't support him in the first place. He's nothing but an ex-con loser IMO.
Besides, what do you expect from trailer trash. That's how they usually behave.Will you continue to support Duane ';Dog'; Chapman show even after his racist rant?
Dog's African-American pastor was just on Fox and he was an eloquent spokesman on Dog's behalf. He recounted hearing Dog trying to talk his charges out of crime on a regular basis. ThatGirl above is right, he is not expressing hatred of African-Americans, it appears he is reacting to a threat from the girl and/or his son to record him in an unguarded moment, and apparently, he had good reason to be concerned. I believe in forgiveness and redemption for all but child molesters and murderers.
It appears as if he made some pretty base statements.
I imagine we are all guilty of saying things that were disgusting and distasteful at stressful times in our lives.
I am not willing to sit here and claim that I am pure as the driven snow like many of the answerers to this question. The truth is simple. If we had cameras and tape recorders tracking and recording everyone of our conversations, we would all be accused of racism, bigotry, vile language, and hate. These are things that we all struggle with, and try hard to get rid of, but there are time that they raise their evil heads, and we come off sounding intollerant or rude.
If we as a society have decided that private conversations should be recorded and made public and that we should judge one another on the content of everything we say, even when stressed or angry, we are in big trouble.
Some of you answerers are going on about a utopian society and claiming that you have never been guilty of racist remarks or hurtful words. You are all liars and should be ashamed of your judgemental behavior.
I never liked the guy because I don't think a guy who did so much harm while he was growing up deserves to get a TV show. There are many bounty hunters out there who've grown up with fairly good morals who'd love to have that TV show. As far as his racist rant, I don't condone it because I believe that every individual is different.
However, let's be real.
To those who say that Duane is a racist, whether you're white or black, are you willing to admit that you are also a ';racist'; because of what you've negatively said about whites or blacks? Come on, be truthful here.
As the Bible says, ';He who is without sin, may cast the first stone.'; Label him a racist, only if you've never, ever said anything negative about black or white people. Otherwise, label yourself a ';racist,'; too.
I'm neither here nor there on his show, never watched it. However, a person can certainly say anything they want in their own home. As someone already stated, he didn't threaten to kill or lynch anyone. He just basically said he has a loose tounge and wants to be careful about who might be offended.
Of course, I never thought Imus should have done more than one apology, directed to the Rutgers basketball team. That going on a mea culpa tour with Rev. Sharpton made things ten times worse.
I dont care what he says in the privacy of his home. Why do blacks always want to fight when someone expresses a loathe for them? We live in a mean world and everyone doesnt love everyone. He said it in the privacy of his home, not on air. I dont think his show should be cancelled and those who have a problem with him should just stop watching him. Its not like blacks watch his show anyway. Plain and simple. I think it was wrong for his son to leak the tape. That was very cruel and I guess he wont be in Daddy's business after all. i dont care how angry I am with my parents, I wont stoop so low to do something like that.
first off i don't neccessarily believe he's a huge racist...he...as he stated...has worked really hard to be where he is and there is nothing more frustrating than other people who are out to ruin you...and aside from that i can only imagine how frustrated and pissed he is now...that's what that whole conversation was about. just because you use the n word doesn't mean you are racist...i use it sometimes myself..the word means degenerate and ignorant...i apply it to white people as well as black...it's not my fault that's what ol whitey used to describe blacks back in the day...i use the word as it applies..just like any other word...people don't get in trouble for saying the words c...nt and f...ggot...or b...itch which is honestly just as demeaning and offensive.
and let us not forget many black people or at least famous ones glorify the word in the first place and use other horrible words..doesn't make anything right but that's the way it is.
now as far as his career...
the guys doing a great thing..he's searching for people that have escaped the law or that the law has just flat out forgotten about because they have day to day crime to worry about.
i think this bulling the black community has done to the white and other types of people about the stupid n word has really just gone way too far and is out of line
this was after all a private conversation to which was of nobodies business...it's not like the guy is going out in a white hat and lighting crosses on fire and trying to drag black people from a truck...that would be completely unacceptable.
people...especially black people have to understand that people are entitled to their opinions...(esp in private) and people are going to not like others for whatever reason, color, sex, sexual orientation, handicaps, type of fashion...whatever.
i've accepted that not everybody is going to like me and that's fine...you can't change that...
if his remarks were deliberate and based toward a person (and by the way they weren't based at his sons g-friend...he was making statements that he uses those words in private)...if his remarks were deliberatly on air or in a book
than be mad at him..but until then he has a right to want what he wants...
i mean if he's a parent and doesnt want his son dating a black chick because he genuinely doesnt like that..what's wrong with that?
some parents don't like the fact that their kid is gay...some parents don't like certain people regardless of color...some people wouldn't want their kid dating an asian or a puerto rican and some also don't want their kids marrying jews and quite honestly you'd be hard pressed to find a lot of white families that weren't bothered a little by their white child dating a black one...or EVEN VICE VERSA...blacks not happy their kids dating a white person...yeh that happens too.
so lets stop sugarcoating how people feel and get used to the idea that people always prefer their own kind...animals are the same way
and we are after all...animals no matter how much we think we're above all that...we still are part of the animal kingdom.
Of course not ! I heard that he wanted to apologize to Rev Al Sharpton , why he thinks Mr. Sharpton accepts apologies for every black person in America is beyond me. He would do better by making a public on air apology. But it is not so much what he said in a private phone call, in my opinion, it's how he feels towards blacks in general, and no television station wants a racist on air causing their network to lose ratings, and giving them a bad image. trust me Duane is not worth that much to them, and he can easily be replaced. Everything happens for a reason, and his time in the spot light is up ! he needs to go somewhere and hide under a rock !
Well, I'm not going to support or withdraw my support. I have never bought his products, and I stopped watching his show a while ago, cause my tastes changed... However...
I have not heard his say anything actually negative about black people. He is very insensitive to the damage that using the word ni* can have on people. Also, he seems to be under the delusion that as a white man he can use this term as much as black people do.
On the other hand. I have heard black people use this term to insult and degrade specific individuals. But when black people do it, no one offers anyone mega bucks to tape it. Matter fact, black people don't even get accused of racism.
I don't think this is a case of black folks only taking offense. I think there is something wrong with peoples abilities to understand what they hear.
In no way, did this man in private or public vilify black character. What he did do was use ugly words, and defend his use of ugly words. Obviously America is not only prejudiced against black people, but they also direct their lack of deep critical thinking towards white people who do not conform to their standards. Dog defended the use of a word, not slavery. I think he has as much right as any one else to use whatever word he likes in private.
Dog is insensitive, uses ugly words, but has not actually expressed hatred. He is guilty of being dumb enough to think that a public figure can go around using language that has not been stamped acceptable by the PC police.
He was having a private conversation with his own child. In the face of threats that his insensitive language use was going to be made public, he called his son, and stuck his foot in his mouth on tape. The girl allegedly made statements that she was going to record their use of the n word. Then wow, suddenly this tape shows up with the national enquirer. Hmmmm.
Anyone saying that its black people who are specifically up in arms is a racist. Learn to think of people as individuals. Black people do not share the same brain or the same opinion.
Transcripts below. (only partial transcripts, I could not find the transcripts of the longer portion of tape where he goes on about how the girl was going to fight? and tape what Beth says...)
yeah, i will because I like Dog - he's so funny with his mace! hee!
I think he was doing just what he said - ranting on his son - you know when people get mad, they will resort to name calling to get at the other person. - immature, yes, but lots of people do it. I don't think he really meant that - his pastory is black! If he was really a racist I don't think he'd be looking at a black man as a man of God!
I do, however , think it was very sh1tty of his son to release that tape. His career is probably over and families shouldn't do things that are that detrimental. Dog said some bad words, the kid will get over it - but that kid ruined his Dad's career / life.
Funny thing is , that kid is gonna need that Daddy of his one day. There's about a 99% chance him and the girl will break up, but Dad will still be around
I just hope that ';Dog'; doesn't go whining to Sharpton with his tail between his legs, begging for forgiveness. Stand up like a man.. Don't bow to the PC police that seemingly are taking over our First Amendment rights. N***** is not a word that I use personally, but I defend Mr. Chapman's right to do so, if he pleases, just as I defend Chris Rock, J-Z, and others' right to call me a cracker. So what?!!
No Im not going to support this dope crack head murderer! I don't support anybody who has killed or participated and planned a murder!
YES...we all make mistakes. His son sold him out..his son, who is just out of jail, decided he needed money....and turned over the private tape. I do not agree with using the N word, but understand some who use it are not racists..he made a mistake....his embarrassement is payment enough...
LET HIM ALONE%26gt;%26gt;put the show back on!!!
It is wrong to ever speak racist but most people in anger have done it. He is human. Hope he and son repair their relationship. It is much moer important than his show.
I first heard the short version and just now got to hear the long version of this phone conversation between Tucker and Mr. Chapman.
I hear a Father disciplining a son whose girlfriend was making threats and stirring up problems between the family members.
Every family has at one time or another gotten on to their children who were hanging around people who were a bad influence.
It is extremely obvious Mr. Chapman was very correct in his assessment of the whole situation concerning his son Tucker and his girlfriend.
While Mr. Chapman is talking to his son the very son whose is recording this conversation is lying to his Dad on this tape about his girlfriends intentions.
THEY WERE NOT JUST HIS GIRLFRIENDS INTENTIONS ~ OBVIOUSLY!!!
Shame on A%26amp;E, Black leaders for getting involved and promotion a rebellious son.
OMG yesss...what racist rant?....theres was no such thing in that PRIVATE conversation.by the way were all racist..people need to admite it but no there the first people to get offended.. i just think its lame
You term him as ';Racist'; by What diffinition? Did this Rant occur on his Show or on the Street, at a Bar, a laundry mat, a mall, or on The Tonight Show? This was a ';Private'; conversation that a tabloid has Snowballed into a Three Ringed Circus. Keep on Truckin' (or Bustin') DAWG!
I dont' support him or watch his show. I really don't care what he has to say.
He can say what he wants to say. He was making an attempt to be a father to his son, its between those two.
Whether its right or wrong, its none of my business.
This is really getting out of hand. People have a right to think and say what they want, particularly if they believe they are doing so privately.
I'm black, and I'll continue to support his show. He's no more racist than the average white trash guy, which he is- and no more racist than others in his age group- and if people heard the crap I say, I'd be in a lotta trouble too!
Most of what he said was that he didn't want to get caught on tape and lose everything- not that he hated African-Americans or wanted to lynch anyone- He just didn't want an ';N hearing him say N!'; LOL! I don't want people to hear the crap I say about them either! LOL!
He demanded that his son break up with Monique because she threatened to tape his poor choice of words and he'd lose everything- not because she's black.
Yes, people have a righ to say what they want in private, even if they want to be racist. Who really cares anyway? I like his show and why would I stop watching it because he said a bad word. I wouldn't stop watching it if he said b**** or some other bad word, cause that is ALL it is, a bad word. The only reason the network suspended the show is because now in america you have to be politically correct and appease the poor suffering black folks who are HURT that he said this word. Do you think half of America really cares what he said. I doubt it. If we could listen in on everyones private conversations all the time, we would hear some pretty shocking stuff, way more shocking than a little n word. Get over it already!! Stop giving more fodder to Al Sharpton and the like. Let me know when someone does something REALLY bad!
HIS show made it look so funny.None of
them could act.Who ever herd of a bounty hunter
dressed like clown.
I'M glad it was canceled but i didn't watch it anyway.
But we will see it for years in reruns as the series
will go syndication.
phil
No. I just posted a similar question. I will no longer support him. Anyone WHO SAYS THEY DO, must use the N-word and racially slur people of color or they just would be more sensitive to the fact that underneath all the ';holier than though crap'; Dog Chapman and his family are bigot filth.
Anyone like tgibby who answered this question first must have a mentality like Dog and his trashy, racist faimly.
Glad A%26amp;E have suspended production of his show. He's worse than Imus could have ever been!
When will ';these types'; ever learn? Just think, all this time, Dog was a nazi bigot with such hatred for Black people. I definitely will not be watching him anymore. Maybe he should have done time in a Mexican prison.
If you read his book you will find a lot of his tactics, and morality is lacking. He smoked crack in the mid 1990's while he was Bounty Hunting. His murder conviction was in the late 70's. I had always figured he completely changed his life around after the conviction. Apparently he hasn't changed.
It's important to note that the murder victim was a black man.
I could care less if the show airs anymore or not, his continuous foul mouth using the F word, etc.... is much more offensive than saying the N word!
What is the big deal about the N word anyway, black people call white people racist names all the time..........and Dog reaching out to Al Sharpton, WTH??????
I just hope we don't see Dog marching in any of those protest with Sharpton %26amp; Jackson promoting more racism in the world in order to help clear his name!!!
he;s an idiot any way..just a showman for the tv
He looks like a rascist
I didnt need proof~beach makeup bad acne
The A%26amp;E television network said it stopped production while it investigates the comments by Chapman, who runs Da Kine Bail Bonds in downtown Honolulu and whose appeal as a folk hero has been heightened by the three-year-old show.
The tape was obtained by the National Enquirer and published on its Web site on Wednesday. On the tape, an enraged Chapman uses profanities and a racial slur while talking about his son's girlfriend, who is African American. The Enquirer did not say how it obtained the tape and it was not clear who Chapman was talking to.
The recording can be heard on CNN's websiteWill you continue to support Duane ';Dog'; Chapman show even after his racist rant?
I didn't support him in the first place. He's nothing but an ex-con loser IMO.
Besides, what do you expect from trailer trash. That's how they usually behave.Will you continue to support Duane ';Dog'; Chapman show even after his racist rant?
Dog's African-American pastor was just on Fox and he was an eloquent spokesman on Dog's behalf. He recounted hearing Dog trying to talk his charges out of crime on a regular basis. ThatGirl above is right, he is not expressing hatred of African-Americans, it appears he is reacting to a threat from the girl and/or his son to record him in an unguarded moment, and apparently, he had good reason to be concerned. I believe in forgiveness and redemption for all but child molesters and murderers.
It appears as if he made some pretty base statements.
I imagine we are all guilty of saying things that were disgusting and distasteful at stressful times in our lives.
I am not willing to sit here and claim that I am pure as the driven snow like many of the answerers to this question. The truth is simple. If we had cameras and tape recorders tracking and recording everyone of our conversations, we would all be accused of racism, bigotry, vile language, and hate. These are things that we all struggle with, and try hard to get rid of, but there are time that they raise their evil heads, and we come off sounding intollerant or rude.
If we as a society have decided that private conversations should be recorded and made public and that we should judge one another on the content of everything we say, even when stressed or angry, we are in big trouble.
Some of you answerers are going on about a utopian society and claiming that you have never been guilty of racist remarks or hurtful words. You are all liars and should be ashamed of your judgemental behavior.
I never liked the guy because I don't think a guy who did so much harm while he was growing up deserves to get a TV show. There are many bounty hunters out there who've grown up with fairly good morals who'd love to have that TV show. As far as his racist rant, I don't condone it because I believe that every individual is different.
However, let's be real.
To those who say that Duane is a racist, whether you're white or black, are you willing to admit that you are also a ';racist'; because of what you've negatively said about whites or blacks? Come on, be truthful here.
As the Bible says, ';He who is without sin, may cast the first stone.'; Label him a racist, only if you've never, ever said anything negative about black or white people. Otherwise, label yourself a ';racist,'; too.
I'm neither here nor there on his show, never watched it. However, a person can certainly say anything they want in their own home. As someone already stated, he didn't threaten to kill or lynch anyone. He just basically said he has a loose tounge and wants to be careful about who might be offended.
Of course, I never thought Imus should have done more than one apology, directed to the Rutgers basketball team. That going on a mea culpa tour with Rev. Sharpton made things ten times worse.
I dont care what he says in the privacy of his home. Why do blacks always want to fight when someone expresses a loathe for them? We live in a mean world and everyone doesnt love everyone. He said it in the privacy of his home, not on air. I dont think his show should be cancelled and those who have a problem with him should just stop watching him. Its not like blacks watch his show anyway. Plain and simple. I think it was wrong for his son to leak the tape. That was very cruel and I guess he wont be in Daddy's business after all. i dont care how angry I am with my parents, I wont stoop so low to do something like that.
first off i don't neccessarily believe he's a huge racist...he...as he stated...has worked really hard to be where he is and there is nothing more frustrating than other people who are out to ruin you...and aside from that i can only imagine how frustrated and pissed he is now...that's what that whole conversation was about. just because you use the n word doesn't mean you are racist...i use it sometimes myself..the word means degenerate and ignorant...i apply it to white people as well as black...it's not my fault that's what ol whitey used to describe blacks back in the day...i use the word as it applies..just like any other word...people don't get in trouble for saying the words c...nt and f...ggot...or b...itch which is honestly just as demeaning and offensive.
and let us not forget many black people or at least famous ones glorify the word in the first place and use other horrible words..doesn't make anything right but that's the way it is.
now as far as his career...
the guys doing a great thing..he's searching for people that have escaped the law or that the law has just flat out forgotten about because they have day to day crime to worry about.
i think this bulling the black community has done to the white and other types of people about the stupid n word has really just gone way too far and is out of line
this was after all a private conversation to which was of nobodies business...it's not like the guy is going out in a white hat and lighting crosses on fire and trying to drag black people from a truck...that would be completely unacceptable.
people...especially black people have to understand that people are entitled to their opinions...(esp in private) and people are going to not like others for whatever reason, color, sex, sexual orientation, handicaps, type of fashion...whatever.
i've accepted that not everybody is going to like me and that's fine...you can't change that...
if his remarks were deliberate and based toward a person (and by the way they weren't based at his sons g-friend...he was making statements that he uses those words in private)...if his remarks were deliberatly on air or in a book
than be mad at him..but until then he has a right to want what he wants...
i mean if he's a parent and doesnt want his son dating a black chick because he genuinely doesnt like that..what's wrong with that?
some parents don't like the fact that their kid is gay...some parents don't like certain people regardless of color...some people wouldn't want their kid dating an asian or a puerto rican and some also don't want their kids marrying jews and quite honestly you'd be hard pressed to find a lot of white families that weren't bothered a little by their white child dating a black one...or EVEN VICE VERSA...blacks not happy their kids dating a white person...yeh that happens too.
so lets stop sugarcoating how people feel and get used to the idea that people always prefer their own kind...animals are the same way
and we are after all...animals no matter how much we think we're above all that...we still are part of the animal kingdom.
Of course not ! I heard that he wanted to apologize to Rev Al Sharpton , why he thinks Mr. Sharpton accepts apologies for every black person in America is beyond me. He would do better by making a public on air apology. But it is not so much what he said in a private phone call, in my opinion, it's how he feels towards blacks in general, and no television station wants a racist on air causing their network to lose ratings, and giving them a bad image. trust me Duane is not worth that much to them, and he can easily be replaced. Everything happens for a reason, and his time in the spot light is up ! he needs to go somewhere and hide under a rock !
Well, I'm not going to support or withdraw my support. I have never bought his products, and I stopped watching his show a while ago, cause my tastes changed... However...
I have not heard his say anything actually negative about black people. He is very insensitive to the damage that using the word ni* can have on people. Also, he seems to be under the delusion that as a white man he can use this term as much as black people do.
On the other hand. I have heard black people use this term to insult and degrade specific individuals. But when black people do it, no one offers anyone mega bucks to tape it. Matter fact, black people don't even get accused of racism.
I don't think this is a case of black folks only taking offense. I think there is something wrong with peoples abilities to understand what they hear.
In no way, did this man in private or public vilify black character. What he did do was use ugly words, and defend his use of ugly words. Obviously America is not only prejudiced against black people, but they also direct their lack of deep critical thinking towards white people who do not conform to their standards. Dog defended the use of a word, not slavery. I think he has as much right as any one else to use whatever word he likes in private.
Dog is insensitive, uses ugly words, but has not actually expressed hatred. He is guilty of being dumb enough to think that a public figure can go around using language that has not been stamped acceptable by the PC police.
He was having a private conversation with his own child. In the face of threats that his insensitive language use was going to be made public, he called his son, and stuck his foot in his mouth on tape. The girl allegedly made statements that she was going to record their use of the n word. Then wow, suddenly this tape shows up with the national enquirer. Hmmmm.
Anyone saying that its black people who are specifically up in arms is a racist. Learn to think of people as individuals. Black people do not share the same brain or the same opinion.
Transcripts below. (only partial transcripts, I could not find the transcripts of the longer portion of tape where he goes on about how the girl was going to fight? and tape what Beth says...)
yeah, i will because I like Dog - he's so funny with his mace! hee!
I think he was doing just what he said - ranting on his son - you know when people get mad, they will resort to name calling to get at the other person. - immature, yes, but lots of people do it. I don't think he really meant that - his pastory is black! If he was really a racist I don't think he'd be looking at a black man as a man of God!
I do, however , think it was very sh1tty of his son to release that tape. His career is probably over and families shouldn't do things that are that detrimental. Dog said some bad words, the kid will get over it - but that kid ruined his Dad's career / life.
Funny thing is , that kid is gonna need that Daddy of his one day. There's about a 99% chance him and the girl will break up, but Dad will still be around
I just hope that ';Dog'; doesn't go whining to Sharpton with his tail between his legs, begging for forgiveness. Stand up like a man.. Don't bow to the PC police that seemingly are taking over our First Amendment rights. N***** is not a word that I use personally, but I defend Mr. Chapman's right to do so, if he pleases, just as I defend Chris Rock, J-Z, and others' right to call me a cracker. So what?!!
No Im not going to support this dope crack head murderer! I don't support anybody who has killed or participated and planned a murder!
YES...we all make mistakes. His son sold him out..his son, who is just out of jail, decided he needed money....and turned over the private tape. I do not agree with using the N word, but understand some who use it are not racists..he made a mistake....his embarrassement is payment enough...
LET HIM ALONE%26gt;%26gt;put the show back on!!!
It is wrong to ever speak racist but most people in anger have done it. He is human. Hope he and son repair their relationship. It is much moer important than his show.
I first heard the short version and just now got to hear the long version of this phone conversation between Tucker and Mr. Chapman.
I hear a Father disciplining a son whose girlfriend was making threats and stirring up problems between the family members.
Every family has at one time or another gotten on to their children who were hanging around people who were a bad influence.
It is extremely obvious Mr. Chapman was very correct in his assessment of the whole situation concerning his son Tucker and his girlfriend.
While Mr. Chapman is talking to his son the very son whose is recording this conversation is lying to his Dad on this tape about his girlfriends intentions.
THEY WERE NOT JUST HIS GIRLFRIENDS INTENTIONS ~ OBVIOUSLY!!!
Shame on A%26amp;E, Black leaders for getting involved and promotion a rebellious son.
OMG yesss...what racist rant?....theres was no such thing in that PRIVATE conversation.by the way were all racist..people need to admite it but no there the first people to get offended.. i just think its lame
You term him as ';Racist'; by What diffinition? Did this Rant occur on his Show or on the Street, at a Bar, a laundry mat, a mall, or on The Tonight Show? This was a ';Private'; conversation that a tabloid has Snowballed into a Three Ringed Circus. Keep on Truckin' (or Bustin') DAWG!
I dont' support him or watch his show. I really don't care what he has to say.
He can say what he wants to say. He was making an attempt to be a father to his son, its between those two.
Whether its right or wrong, its none of my business.
This is really getting out of hand. People have a right to think and say what they want, particularly if they believe they are doing so privately.
I'm black, and I'll continue to support his show. He's no more racist than the average white trash guy, which he is- and no more racist than others in his age group- and if people heard the crap I say, I'd be in a lotta trouble too!
Most of what he said was that he didn't want to get caught on tape and lose everything- not that he hated African-Americans or wanted to lynch anyone- He just didn't want an ';N hearing him say N!'; LOL! I don't want people to hear the crap I say about them either! LOL!
He demanded that his son break up with Monique because she threatened to tape his poor choice of words and he'd lose everything- not because she's black.
Yes, people have a righ to say what they want in private, even if they want to be racist. Who really cares anyway? I like his show and why would I stop watching it because he said a bad word. I wouldn't stop watching it if he said b**** or some other bad word, cause that is ALL it is, a bad word. The only reason the network suspended the show is because now in america you have to be politically correct and appease the poor suffering black folks who are HURT that he said this word. Do you think half of America really cares what he said. I doubt it. If we could listen in on everyones private conversations all the time, we would hear some pretty shocking stuff, way more shocking than a little n word. Get over it already!! Stop giving more fodder to Al Sharpton and the like. Let me know when someone does something REALLY bad!
HIS show made it look so funny.None of
them could act.Who ever herd of a bounty hunter
dressed like clown.
I'M glad it was canceled but i didn't watch it anyway.
But we will see it for years in reruns as the series
will go syndication.
phil
No. I just posted a similar question. I will no longer support him. Anyone WHO SAYS THEY DO, must use the N-word and racially slur people of color or they just would be more sensitive to the fact that underneath all the ';holier than though crap'; Dog Chapman and his family are bigot filth.
Anyone like tgibby who answered this question first must have a mentality like Dog and his trashy, racist faimly.
Glad A%26amp;E have suspended production of his show. He's worse than Imus could have ever been!
When will ';these types'; ever learn? Just think, all this time, Dog was a nazi bigot with such hatred for Black people. I definitely will not be watching him anymore. Maybe he should have done time in a Mexican prison.
If you read his book you will find a lot of his tactics, and morality is lacking. He smoked crack in the mid 1990's while he was Bounty Hunting. His murder conviction was in the late 70's. I had always figured he completely changed his life around after the conviction. Apparently he hasn't changed.
It's important to note that the murder victim was a black man.
I could care less if the show airs anymore or not, his continuous foul mouth using the F word, etc.... is much more offensive than saying the N word!
What is the big deal about the N word anyway, black people call white people racist names all the time..........and Dog reaching out to Al Sharpton, WTH??????
I just hope we don't see Dog marching in any of those protest with Sharpton %26amp; Jackson promoting more racism in the world in order to help clear his name!!!
he;s an idiot any way..just a showman for the tv
He looks like a rascist
I didnt need proof~
With dublin bus, whats the difference between a number 69 and 69X? (slight rant included!)?
I thought the X was an express that only picked people up at a certain point (city centre) and dropped them off at a certain point (saggart) but i accidentally wandered on to one thinking it was a 68 (don't ask why, more the dumb drivers fault then mine!) and people got off as they pleased. Does it just mean you cant get on other then its departure from the city centre?
And while were on the topic, am i the only one thats sick of the morons that drive those death traps? I swear some of the drivers are drunk or something, one went to overtake a line of about TWENTY cars! No joke, all at once, he was basically just driving on the wrong side of the road! Through red lights, speeds over speed bumps everything! And dont you hate it when they look at the little box where you pay your fee as if you didnt pay as much as you said? I hate that, just press the damn button and give me my ticket!
And the ticket, RRGG! i spend 鈧?0 every week on the damn bus fairs, looked into getting a weekly one, its 鈧?8.50, hardly saving a fortune! And the monthly ones are 鈧?0! i mean, who goes on the bus so much that there saving money with that scam? You'd think they'd make the monthly ones more economical then buying 4 weekly ones! I swear there total morons!With dublin bus, whats the difference between a number 69 and 69X? (slight rant included!)?
ah, had a bad day!!! I get the 25x sometimes, and it stops at every stop in Lucan, than Palmerston, then all down the quays, the only difference between that and the normal 25a is its avoids Chapelizod, wippee.
And sure don't you know you have to learn advanced driving skills to drive a Dublin bus, which means, booting down bus lanes, over taking cyclists at last second, chatting you up everytime its your turn to get off the bus, and talking on the radio to Bernie in the Depot about some lunatic holding up the traffic just past Liffey Valley.
And as for the passengers? If you really want a bus journey from hell get the 78A. Its great craic, everyone ring tone is 2pac, everyone talks very loud so if your bored you can tune in to hear someones complete life story. Before you know it your in town. Brilliant. Its the bus the tourist get to Guinness's, god knows what they must think.
With dublin bus, whats the difference between a number 69 and 69X? (slight rant included!)?
Sounds like you could be paying off a nice car instead mate.
I used to jokingly tell girls in my car who were shy;
';girls who go too far, go by car...
Girls who fuss....
By bus.';
I didn't know they were paying THAT much just to get away from me. lol
Get some nice warm brightly coloured waterproof clothing and a bike with kick a55 lights and you'll get around Dublin much quicker. After three months the bike and clothing will have paid for itself.
Yeah, your guess is probably right about just getting it at the starting point and nowhere else. It does seem faster all the same. It is more expensive too. They run only at peak times. I sometimes get the 25X and the 66X to Lucan. You are definitely right about the drivers. Several times, they have gone through red lights and barely brake in time and overtaking is a bit on the dangerous side as well. I have noticed one particular bad driver on our route. I feel the same as you on that one.
And while were on the topic, am i the only one thats sick of the morons that drive those death traps? I swear some of the drivers are drunk or something, one went to overtake a line of about TWENTY cars! No joke, all at once, he was basically just driving on the wrong side of the road! Through red lights, speeds over speed bumps everything! And dont you hate it when they look at the little box where you pay your fee as if you didnt pay as much as you said? I hate that, just press the damn button and give me my ticket!
And the ticket, RRGG! i spend 鈧?0 every week on the damn bus fairs, looked into getting a weekly one, its 鈧?8.50, hardly saving a fortune! And the monthly ones are 鈧?0! i mean, who goes on the bus so much that there saving money with that scam? You'd think they'd make the monthly ones more economical then buying 4 weekly ones! I swear there total morons!With dublin bus, whats the difference between a number 69 and 69X? (slight rant included!)?
ah, had a bad day!!! I get the 25x sometimes, and it stops at every stop in Lucan, than Palmerston, then all down the quays, the only difference between that and the normal 25a is its avoids Chapelizod, wippee.
And sure don't you know you have to learn advanced driving skills to drive a Dublin bus, which means, booting down bus lanes, over taking cyclists at last second, chatting you up everytime its your turn to get off the bus, and talking on the radio to Bernie in the Depot about some lunatic holding up the traffic just past Liffey Valley.
And as for the passengers? If you really want a bus journey from hell get the 78A. Its great craic, everyone ring tone is 2pac, everyone talks very loud so if your bored you can tune in to hear someones complete life story. Before you know it your in town. Brilliant. Its the bus the tourist get to Guinness's, god knows what they must think.
With dublin bus, whats the difference between a number 69 and 69X? (slight rant included!)?
Sounds like you could be paying off a nice car instead mate.
I used to jokingly tell girls in my car who were shy;
';girls who go too far, go by car...
Girls who fuss....
By bus.';
I didn't know they were paying THAT much just to get away from me. lol
Get some nice warm brightly coloured waterproof clothing and a bike with kick a55 lights and you'll get around Dublin much quicker. After three months the bike and clothing will have paid for itself.
Yeah, your guess is probably right about just getting it at the starting point and nowhere else. It does seem faster all the same. It is more expensive too. They run only at peak times. I sometimes get the 25X and the 66X to Lucan. You are definitely right about the drivers. Several times, they have gone through red lights and barely brake in time and overtaking is a bit on the dangerous side as well. I have noticed one particular bad driver on our route. I feel the same as you on that one.
Can i get sue for libel or other things if I post my rant of my previous landlord on Craigslist?
So, my previous landlord is a ******* cheat and is still holding my deposit. I think i'm gonna sue him. Now he's listing his apartments on craigslist, so if I post -- anonymously of course-- my rant and imply (nothing explicitly referring to his property of course) that I'm referring to his apartments, will I get sue or something? Sure, I expect my post to get taken out but at least I got read. Please stay on topic and don't tell me about how this is a P u ss-y/cheap method or what not. I am dumbfounded by how restricted the medium is to expose unethical landlords.
and yeah, it'd be best if i post under the same housing/apt for rent sectionCan i get sue for libel or other things if I post my rant of my previous landlord on Craigslist?
If what you post is the truth then there would not be any libel or slander, if you include anything that is not the truth then yes you could be sued.~
and yeah, it'd be best if i post under the same housing/apt for rent sectionCan i get sue for libel or other things if I post my rant of my previous landlord on Craigslist?
If what you post is the truth then there would not be any libel or slander, if you include anything that is not the truth then yes you could be sued.~
Does anyone remember that question posted with the video of McCain's cussing rant on C-SPAN?
I remember watching this in it's original form a long time ago on C-SPAN. I thought the cussing video was hilarious. However, let's take a look at the real, unedited video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5qvbXX7qZ鈥?/a>Does anyone remember that question posted with the video of McCain's cussing rant on C-SPAN?
Il'l be glad when McCain is presidentDoes anyone remember that question posted with the video of McCain's cussing rant on C-SPAN?
Yes, I remember the video. How could you think that ranting and swearing in an official session of the senate is funny? This man could possibly have the red button and bomb codes within arms length and he's got such a vile temper that he could blow up half the world before thinking about what he's doing.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5qvbXX7qZ鈥?/a>Does anyone remember that question posted with the video of McCain's cussing rant on C-SPAN?
Il'l be glad when McCain is presidentDoes anyone remember that question posted with the video of McCain's cussing rant on C-SPAN?
Yes, I remember the video. How could you think that ranting and swearing in an official session of the senate is funny? This man could possibly have the red button and bomb codes within arms length and he's got such a vile temper that he could blow up half the world before thinking about what he's doing.
Men Only: Does anyone know of a blog or stie where i can rant about american women?
Im not looking for any lectures from american women---i don't like em; what i want to know is if there are any websites or blogs out there where i can rant about why american women are horrible to date or marry, and reasonably expect to not get Booted? Yahoo seems to be very sensitive about this.Men Only: Does anyone know of a blog or stie where i can rant about american women?
Sounds to me like you would get more use out of a website that would help you work through your issues and grow up a little.Men Only: Does anyone know of a blog or stie where i can rant about american women?
You are quite feeble minded, friend. Try a message board that Americans do not frequent. If you are going to say nasty things about American women, then don't do it on a site (like yahoo answers) where there are plenty of American women around. Perhaps do a search on google for ';American Women Haters.';
I also enjoy your attempt to blame your KEYBOARD for your spelling mistake. Yes, Yes... in a moment of lucidity, your keyboard switched the I and T keys so you would misspell ';site.';
Have you even been to both American continents, been to all the countries in them, met all the women there? What prejudice you have....
Please, I am not superior, says my ';foreign'; side';.
Don't you dare ignorantly generalize a whole gender in one hemisphere and then try and praise me.
Prick. Everyone of my non-American female friends would say the same thing about you. You disgust me.
If you would like to rant get your own blog. It is easy.
This is a question and answer community. Didn't you read the TOS?
Mate, we can add many white Australian women to the list as well! I mean any women who would consider it ok to put on weight %26amp; still expect to be paid for, basically makes me sick! I expect you have many more over there, but we too suffer that blight in Australia...
I'm a girl...I don't feel offended that you feel this way but it sounds kinda stupid? Just make your own blog ranting or rant to your friends. I don't really think many people would make a site or blog specifically for this.
http://www.menarebetterthanwomen.com/
Playgirl.com
Sounds to me like you would get more use out of a website that would help you work through your issues and grow up a little.Men Only: Does anyone know of a blog or stie where i can rant about american women?
You are quite feeble minded, friend. Try a message board that Americans do not frequent. If you are going to say nasty things about American women, then don't do it on a site (like yahoo answers) where there are plenty of American women around. Perhaps do a search on google for ';American Women Haters.';
I also enjoy your attempt to blame your KEYBOARD for your spelling mistake. Yes, Yes... in a moment of lucidity, your keyboard switched the I and T keys so you would misspell ';site.';
Have you even been to both American continents, been to all the countries in them, met all the women there? What prejudice you have....
Please, I am not superior, says my ';foreign'; side';.
Don't you dare ignorantly generalize a whole gender in one hemisphere and then try and praise me.
Prick. Everyone of my non-American female friends would say the same thing about you. You disgust me.
If you would like to rant get your own blog. It is easy.
This is a question and answer community. Didn't you read the TOS?
Mate, we can add many white Australian women to the list as well! I mean any women who would consider it ok to put on weight %26amp; still expect to be paid for, basically makes me sick! I expect you have many more over there, but we too suffer that blight in Australia...
I'm a girl...I don't feel offended that you feel this way but it sounds kinda stupid? Just make your own blog ranting or rant to your friends. I don't really think many people would make a site or blog specifically for this.
http://www.menarebetterthanwomen.com/
Playgirl.com
Should there be a political ranting category?
I think there should be so then all of the ranting trolls can bicker and the people that ask reasonable, legitimate questions can actually have some intellegent political debates.Should there be a political ranting category?
You asked what Ive been thinking about for a month now. Absolutely. Most of the political q/a is out of control.Should there be a political ranting category?
There would be so few left in the politics category, you might have to debate yourself...lol
There is. You are on it. So am I.
I thought this was it.
There already is.
It's called the 'Elections' category.
Not a bad idea! Seriously, suggest this to the Y/A board!
it seems they already have one,considering yahoo won't stop it
lol...would that be fair and balanced?
Should be, but it would still get posted here.
All they need to do is post links to blogs.
lol
yes, it should be liberal alley or democrat corner.
You asked what Ive been thinking about for a month now. Absolutely. Most of the political q/a is out of control.Should there be a political ranting category?
There would be so few left in the politics category, you might have to debate yourself...lol
There is. You are on it. So am I.
I thought this was it.
There already is.
It's called the 'Elections' category.
Not a bad idea! Seriously, suggest this to the Y/A board!
it seems they already have one,considering yahoo won't stop it
lol...would that be fair and balanced?
Should be, but it would still get posted here.
All they need to do is post links to blogs.
lol
yes, it should be liberal alley or democrat corner.
';older'; people think they can assume that all young people (more of a rant than a q)?
live off the state and call themselves tax payers. At any given moment they go on about how they are tax payers and they are paying for us to live. Well let me just tell you not all teens live the life you think.
I don't drink, I don't go clubbing, I'm working, I drive and pay for my car myself, I pay for my food, I pay for my clothes, I pay towards the bills in my home with my parents, If I want anything I buy it myself, I redecorated my bedroom-I bought ALL of the supplies and did it myself, I volunteer and I pay to charties, I pay my own phone bill and I bought my own comuter.
AND i pay 42% tax from my earnings.
So why do you think you have the right to assume that just because I'm 19, I'm living off your tax money?';older'; people think they can assume that all young people (more of a rant than a q)?
what gives you the right to assume that all older people moan about scrounging teenage yobs? Even you have got to admit that you are in the minority';older'; people think they can assume that all young people (more of a rant than a q)?
Good for you, but you are definitely in the minority. When people say things like that they are generalising and don't literally mean every young person, ignore them and be happy in the knowledge you are self supporting. You must be on a good wage to be paying 42% tax and you will probably find yourself moaning about scroungers in the future.
Are you British? The ';42 percent'; suggests that. If so, that's because you live in a socialist nation. I've never heard an older person in the United States say that young people were living off taxes. (PS: Our highest tax rate is 33 percent, and very few people actually pay that much -- in fact, 40 percent of Americans pay no taxes at all.)
Can i adopt you? you sound a lot more economical then my 18yr lol...although i'm not moaning about her as she is always working, pays her way on her car etc and is very generous with her sister.
Just like the stereotype you are talking about the same applies to us 'older' folk, we do not all think like that :)
My age group 43, tend to moan about oaps, they are so rude, push and shove lol........so guess nothing really changes ;)
I counter with why do all ';younger'; people assume as you seem to.
I take people, irrespective of their age, as I find them and I never assume that all young people live off the state. Just as I never assume that all middle aged or older people do.
Kudos to you, but why do you pay 42%? That's high, especially for someone who donates to charities.
(and you're not living off my tax money... thanks to some nifty moves on my part, I will pay zero to the US government this year)
You are a good teen. But you are one in the majority. Yes, there a few out there very responsible. I will apologize for all of the old folks.
Why are you making that assumption? And are you waiting for a medal?
There is more to this story than what you are telling us.
There is always TWO sides.
i dont think its ALL
just a lot
hurray for you
As an 'older person', I can say with hand on heart that your statement does not apply to me .....regarding 'assumptions' of this nature.
On the other hand (and again not in your case), the appallingly badly written questions, the ignorance, the incredible spellings and the stupidity that gets written and asked on here makes me want for the money taken from me in taxes that supposedly have been spent on 'education', I'd like it back.
Attempts at Education have manifestly failed, and I think I'm entitled to a reimbursement under the heading of 'Not Fit for Purpose' ~ or The Sale of Goods act, as I was conned into parting with it.
Sash.
Im with you on this it really winds me up too, Im now 28 so kind of with the old category now but I have worked 2 jobs since being 18 worked full time in office and in a pub 4 nights a week for extra cash to pay for the things I wanted like cars, I have never claimed any DSS in my life, BUT however there are alot of bums out there that won't get a job and they are not all young some are old too, but they go for the disability benefits pretending they are depressed or something, I wish I worked for benefits Id stop every-ones benefits and get them all back to work. But the old people think that all Young'sones are ignorant so they are ignorant in return and never realise how nice some are too.beach makeup bad acne
I don't drink, I don't go clubbing, I'm working, I drive and pay for my car myself, I pay for my food, I pay for my clothes, I pay towards the bills in my home with my parents, If I want anything I buy it myself, I redecorated my bedroom-I bought ALL of the supplies and did it myself, I volunteer and I pay to charties, I pay my own phone bill and I bought my own comuter.
AND i pay 42% tax from my earnings.
So why do you think you have the right to assume that just because I'm 19, I'm living off your tax money?';older'; people think they can assume that all young people (more of a rant than a q)?
what gives you the right to assume that all older people moan about scrounging teenage yobs? Even you have got to admit that you are in the minority';older'; people think they can assume that all young people (more of a rant than a q)?
Good for you, but you are definitely in the minority. When people say things like that they are generalising and don't literally mean every young person, ignore them and be happy in the knowledge you are self supporting. You must be on a good wage to be paying 42% tax and you will probably find yourself moaning about scroungers in the future.
Are you British? The ';42 percent'; suggests that. If so, that's because you live in a socialist nation. I've never heard an older person in the United States say that young people were living off taxes. (PS: Our highest tax rate is 33 percent, and very few people actually pay that much -- in fact, 40 percent of Americans pay no taxes at all.)
Can i adopt you? you sound a lot more economical then my 18yr lol...although i'm not moaning about her as she is always working, pays her way on her car etc and is very generous with her sister.
Just like the stereotype you are talking about the same applies to us 'older' folk, we do not all think like that :)
My age group 43, tend to moan about oaps, they are so rude, push and shove lol........so guess nothing really changes ;)
I counter with why do all ';younger'; people assume as you seem to.
I take people, irrespective of their age, as I find them and I never assume that all young people live off the state. Just as I never assume that all middle aged or older people do.
Kudos to you, but why do you pay 42%? That's high, especially for someone who donates to charities.
(and you're not living off my tax money... thanks to some nifty moves on my part, I will pay zero to the US government this year)
You are a good teen. But you are one in the majority. Yes, there a few out there very responsible. I will apologize for all of the old folks.
Why are you making that assumption? And are you waiting for a medal?
There is more to this story than what you are telling us.
There is always TWO sides.
i dont think its ALL
just a lot
hurray for you
As an 'older person', I can say with hand on heart that your statement does not apply to me .....regarding 'assumptions' of this nature.
On the other hand (and again not in your case), the appallingly badly written questions, the ignorance, the incredible spellings and the stupidity that gets written and asked on here makes me want for the money taken from me in taxes that supposedly have been spent on 'education', I'd like it back.
Attempts at Education have manifestly failed, and I think I'm entitled to a reimbursement under the heading of 'Not Fit for Purpose' ~ or The Sale of Goods act, as I was conned into parting with it.
Sash.
Im with you on this it really winds me up too, Im now 28 so kind of with the old category now but I have worked 2 jobs since being 18 worked full time in office and in a pub 4 nights a week for extra cash to pay for the things I wanted like cars, I have never claimed any DSS in my life, BUT however there are alot of bums out there that won't get a job and they are not all young some are old too, but they go for the disability benefits pretending they are depressed or something, I wish I worked for benefits Id stop every-ones benefits and get them all back to work. But the old people think that all Young'sones are ignorant so they are ignorant in return and never realise how nice some are too.
Christians and Anti-Catholics, Do you even know the definition of Troll and Rant?
I'm questioning you, whoever called any person's question a rant or Troll that is a Catholic.
Do you even know what the two words mean? I bet you don't.
Because if you did, you would know it's not a rant or Troll what we speak; we speak the truth.Christians and Anti-Catholics, Do you even know the definition of Troll and Rant?
It's hard to define a rant. Some things, though, are common to most of these: a statement based on emotion, less on logic; heated in tone, almost to the point of pure sarcasm; and disdain or ';putting down'; anyone who doesn't agree with the poster's concepts. May I add that sometimes length is a giveaway--people usually don't rant in a sentence or two, I've observed.
It's harder to define trolls. From what I've seen, though, again there are a few common traits: they poke fun, at best, at anyone or anything; they ask inane questions and refuse to listen to anything they don't want to; they chime in even if the questions aren't addressed to them; and there may be more. Oh well. We do have the freedom of speech and it's obvious that some take greater advantage than others.
I certainly am no expert on this topic, but believe me, I do not wish to rant or be perceived as a troll. As a minister of the Gospel, though, I do want to try and answer legitimate, serious questions.Christians and Anti-Catholics, Do you even know the definition of Troll and Rant?
%26lt;%26lt;Christians and Anti-Catholics, Do you even know the definition of Troll and Rant? I'm questioning you, whoever called any person's question a rant or Troll that is a Catholic.%26gt;%26gt;
They're questioning you because of you attitude, and I don't think they're wrong to question you either - and I'm saying that as a Catholic.
%26lt;%26lt; Do you even know what the two words mean? I bet you don't. Because if you did, you would know it's not a rant or Troll what we speak;.%26gt;%26gt;
That's what I am talking about. ';I'll bet you don't'; is a presumption - not the conduct of a PRUDENT Catholic.
If the first thing you do to people you want to talk to is ';knock them down';, don't expect them to want to listen to anything you have to say after that initial ';dig';.
That's why the proper Catholic speaks with CHARITY; with COMPASSION, not with a chip on their shoulder. And you've come to YA! acting like you've got a chip on your shoulder or something.
You need to STAND DOWN before you stand up and speak the Truth.
%26lt;%26lt;we speak the truth%26gt;%26gt;
And what Truth have you spoken, specifically, that which is spoken in a charitable and compassionate manner?
Anyone who says something controversial is called a troll. I don't agree with it, but that's how it is.
A rant is loudly complaining about something.
Hmmmm.... do you know what sweeping generalization is?
an example is your question.... not ALL Christians call peoples questions rants or people trolls... :/ no matter what their religious belief (or lack thereof) is... :/
I stick up for Catholics here all the time because they're constantly taking abuse from fundamentalist Christians.
Well this is a rant.
*Coughs* You're ranting.
Oh, and Catholics are Christians just like roses are flowers.
I have no clue what you're talking about, although I like Catholics..
First of all, what's with this ';Christians and anti-Catholics'; bit? Is a Christian by definition anti-Catholic? Are you saying Catholics aren't Christians?
You seem too confused to speak the truth! I'd have to conclude that you are giving an example of a rant.
Please clarify.
Oh you did. Sort of. A troll is an attempt to drag some one into a discussion for the sake of trying to humiliate them.
Edit:
If indeed you have learned so much, how is it that you are so unclear about your question? I'm still trying to grasp where you're going with this. Are you actually seeking an answer?
Do you even know what the two words mean? I bet you don't.
Because if you did, you would know it's not a rant or Troll what we speak; we speak the truth.Christians and Anti-Catholics, Do you even know the definition of Troll and Rant?
It's hard to define a rant. Some things, though, are common to most of these: a statement based on emotion, less on logic; heated in tone, almost to the point of pure sarcasm; and disdain or ';putting down'; anyone who doesn't agree with the poster's concepts. May I add that sometimes length is a giveaway--people usually don't rant in a sentence or two, I've observed.
It's harder to define trolls. From what I've seen, though, again there are a few common traits: they poke fun, at best, at anyone or anything; they ask inane questions and refuse to listen to anything they don't want to; they chime in even if the questions aren't addressed to them; and there may be more. Oh well. We do have the freedom of speech and it's obvious that some take greater advantage than others.
I certainly am no expert on this topic, but believe me, I do not wish to rant or be perceived as a troll. As a minister of the Gospel, though, I do want to try and answer legitimate, serious questions.Christians and Anti-Catholics, Do you even know the definition of Troll and Rant?
%26lt;%26lt;Christians and Anti-Catholics, Do you even know the definition of Troll and Rant? I'm questioning you, whoever called any person's question a rant or Troll that is a Catholic.%26gt;%26gt;
They're questioning you because of you attitude, and I don't think they're wrong to question you either - and I'm saying that as a Catholic.
%26lt;%26lt; Do you even know what the two words mean? I bet you don't. Because if you did, you would know it's not a rant or Troll what we speak;.%26gt;%26gt;
That's what I am talking about. ';I'll bet you don't'; is a presumption - not the conduct of a PRUDENT Catholic.
If the first thing you do to people you want to talk to is ';knock them down';, don't expect them to want to listen to anything you have to say after that initial ';dig';.
That's why the proper Catholic speaks with CHARITY; with COMPASSION, not with a chip on their shoulder. And you've come to YA! acting like you've got a chip on your shoulder or something.
You need to STAND DOWN before you stand up and speak the Truth.
%26lt;%26lt;we speak the truth%26gt;%26gt;
And what Truth have you spoken, specifically, that which is spoken in a charitable and compassionate manner?
Anyone who says something controversial is called a troll. I don't agree with it, but that's how it is.
A rant is loudly complaining about something.
Hmmmm.... do you know what sweeping generalization is?
an example is your question.... not ALL Christians call peoples questions rants or people trolls... :/ no matter what their religious belief (or lack thereof) is... :/
I stick up for Catholics here all the time because they're constantly taking abuse from fundamentalist Christians.
Well this is a rant.
*Coughs* You're ranting.
Oh, and Catholics are Christians just like roses are flowers.
I have no clue what you're talking about, although I like Catholics..
First of all, what's with this ';Christians and anti-Catholics'; bit? Is a Christian by definition anti-Catholic? Are you saying Catholics aren't Christians?
You seem too confused to speak the truth! I'd have to conclude that you are giving an example of a rant.
Please clarify.
Oh you did. Sort of. A troll is an attempt to drag some one into a discussion for the sake of trying to humiliate them.
Edit:
If indeed you have learned so much, how is it that you are so unclear about your question? I'm still trying to grasp where you're going with this. Are you actually seeking an answer?
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