I really don't understand how my ';friends'; can actually call themselves my friends? I live a couple of hours away from them all and I make an effort nearly every weekend to get there to see them and to catch up. The moment I ask them to come up for a visit ';Sorry, it's too far. I'll see you again next time you're down this way';
I feel like I'm making all this effort and recieving nothing in return. Like I listen to and help them all with their issue when they're down. The moment I have something wrong... ';Get over it!'; is always the response.
This doesn't only go for my friends, this is also towards my so called ';boyfriend'; who hasn't actually SEEN me in over 6 weeks!! He still claims that he wants to be together and that he's just got a few things to work out, yet then goes and tells me about all this stuff he's done with he's friends... things WE were meant to do, but he said he physically couldn't at the moment
I know that there is nothing wrong with me, so what's going on?If I knew what was going on, I'd probably feel better (warning: rant)?
I am not sure and can't predict your ';friends'; feelings but maybe they have no idea who they truly are in themselves. Friends are there for their friends. I would say that next time they want you to visit, say I am sorry I have plans that weekend even if you don't have something lined up, and then make sure to do something...even if that is something by yourself. It will make you feel much stronger. Friends don't tell friends to ';get over it';, they stand by your side, the listen, and they will give advice and will tell you the harsh truth in a loving way if they have to.
As for your boyfriend...what do you want from a boyfriend? Is he giving you that? Are you getting what you want from it? If not then no matter how much you care for him it isn't true love and it is time to move on. You will be much better off in the end. He has some lessons to learn.
I would say pick up the pieces from both your friends and your boyfriend, find the things YOU like to do and in those things you might just find true friends. Join a sports team, take a class, volunteer, whatever it is. Right now they EXPECT you to make the effort to see them. Make an effort for yourself and if in that they don't respond you will know that you did all you could and that there are people that are better meant to be friends with you out there.
You will get through this girl. Remember that you are important enough to be happy and smile.If I knew what was going on, I'd probably feel better (warning: rant)?
You sound like me after I finished high school.
Something really important to think about: Deep down how do you REALLY feel about your 'so called boyfriend'? Is the relationship something worth holding onto?
Friends come and go. It's a part of life.
you need new friends! they all sound like jerks
Sounds like you've got the role of the ';listener'; with all of your friends. Good for them, bad for you. You don't have to give up on them completely, but it isn't fair if you are always the one making the effort. Be there for them as much as you can on the phone, but I would cut down your visits until they can show you that you are important enough for the trip.
And your boyfriend... I can't say this with certainty, but if he was as into you as he should be, he would do whatever it took to come around. I think you need to give him his space, and if he comes around again that will show you his feelings.
It sounds to me like you need to make a few local friends who have your best interests at heart, too.
Saturday, January 9, 2010
Can i get sue for libel or other things if I post my rant of my previous landlord on Craigslist?
So, my previous landlord is a ******* cheat and is still holding my deposit. I think i'm gonna sue him. Now he's listing his apartments on craigslist, so if I post -- anonymously of course-- my rant and imply (nothing explicitly referring to his property of course) that I'm referring to his apartments, will I get sue or something? Sure, I expect my post to get taken out but at least I got read. Please stay on topic and don't tell me about how this is a P u ss-y/cheap method or what not. I am dumbfounded by how restricted the medium is to expose unethical landlords.
and yeah, it'd be best if i post under the same housing/apt for rent sectionCan i get sue for libel or other things if I post my rant of my previous landlord on Craigslist?
Well, I don't think it's illegal, but I couldn't swear to it. If it's your feelings and it's direct quotes and you can prove it, I don't think you can sue for libel. But if you don't have proof, it is possible you could be sued; he could claim you're out to destroy his name. From my understanding, the difference is whether it's how you feel or it's malicious.Can i get sue for libel or other things if I post my rant of my previous landlord on Craigslist?
Not if you post anon. Do it, sounds like he deserves it anyways.
Power to the People!!!
and yeah, it'd be best if i post under the same housing/apt for rent sectionCan i get sue for libel or other things if I post my rant of my previous landlord on Craigslist?
Well, I don't think it's illegal, but I couldn't swear to it. If it's your feelings and it's direct quotes and you can prove it, I don't think you can sue for libel. But if you don't have proof, it is possible you could be sued; he could claim you're out to destroy his name. From my understanding, the difference is whether it's how you feel or it's malicious.Can i get sue for libel or other things if I post my rant of my previous landlord on Craigslist?
Not if you post anon. Do it, sounds like he deserves it anyways.
Power to the People!!!
She's ignorant, selfish, conceded, and clueless. What do you think? (read my rant)?
I used to have this ';best friend'; who I used to tell everything too. I've always had a vibe that she'd be always taking the information I've been telling her for granted. Telling me that ';you're my best friend in the world ..'; BS like that (I really don't believe in best friends, there are close friends, and there are friends, then acquaintances). So between the 4 years that we've known each other.
This girl starts to cake on the make-up. Addict herself to Facebook, take thousands of pictures and post them on Facebook as well. She also makes her voice even higher then it actually is. Plus she's those kind of girls that use WAY too much slang on the internet, then she does in real life, if she does use it, it comes out un-natural and awkward. For instance ';Yessir, Chyea, BRAP!'; .. oh man.
So anyways since high school has mellowed we haven't spoken to each other. Quick flashback; me and her and a couple of my other close friends / not any more. Were in those very childish groups that you make with your first initial of your name so ';jerkss';. The girl I'm talking about wouldn't even let us consider the fact of constructive criticism if we wanted to tell her something about her make-up being too much (eyeliner.. :| oh Lord) Or how skinny she is, because pffft of course friends tell their friends about their body, she was just really skinny, and she barely ate. Not even lunch.
So then she started getting all these friends, by being ';nice'; (Pretty much two-faced, you should know how it is) and by giving people stuff who she barely even knew. She uses her excuse of being nice to other people to not have any time for me and my friends. My other friend went to a different high school, so she doesn't know how it is anymore.
I've vented to her about mostly all of my problems between friends, and she's vented to me probably twice as much. But she can't even consider talking to me at least saying hi, to me or my friends? She says on Facebook, (Facebook because she can't say this to my face or my friends faces) that we are ';always'; there for her if she'd be in a bad mood. So I commented back ';We're always there for you, yet you don't even have to time to talk to us.'; She deleted that note, because she obviously doesn't want her ';new'; friends to see 8-) whatever.
And in a recent note she wrote
';I've realized that I lost many bestfriends, but gained them too.';,
';the people who I cared about the most, (I still care about them) but noticed how much they piss me off, when I haven't done anything to them.'; (Right because you HAVEN'T done anything to us, not a word but we WERE there for you when you needed some support),
';Everyone's equal, no one is more special, or has more advantages to me.I realized its stupid to have catorgorize your friends, everyones just equal, and no higher then anyone else.'; (I'm sorry but do you think I want your attention and friendship after all of this BS? )
';I really miss them , but I can't do anything about it now.
its ethier one or another being my top priority .. It's hard to make them be equal =( but I wish I could.. I should try at least .. but they don't want me back ..'; (OH soft!)
I forgot to mention that she only uses my friends and the group of people I hang out with as rebounds when she can't find her ';new friends'; She's had more then 9 boyfriends, and girl is only in the 9th grade. She worries about what people think about her, and go off about it on her notes. But unlike her I rather not tell her to avoid the amount of gossip and confrontation I would get from her unnecessary friends. She's soft, and she has no influence of defending herself because when I tried to tell her to stop being two-faced and to stop being nice to people (because you can only be nice up to a point) she would only use the excuse of people ';hating'; on her for being ';mean';.
So now she has all the fake friends any fake two-faced girl could ask for. She photo shops her pictures and blurs out her blemishes. All she does at the caf. is run around talking to people, she's what you would call a ';social butterfly'; but the one's that don't have a grounded perspective on life. I'd like to give her a reality check on life, but I know.. oh I KNOW, that I would be likely to swear at her, more then I would be able to be calm about this situation. She's caused me to hate her a lot more then I would hate Stephen Fowler. LOL. But none the less, she has a problem. And I might even have a big enough problem if I don't get this off my back soon. At least she thinks or knows she's happy. I'm too much observant about people's behaviors and it really bothers me.
I'd like to know what I should do, what do you think of my behavior towards this? And what do you think of hers? I don't want you guys to hate her, because ya'll don't know her. But if you were in my shoes, what would you do?
I'm open to any kind of comments, and answers.She's ignorant, selfish, conceded, and clueless. What do you think? (read my rant)?
act like she's dead. clearly she's not even worth the trouble(clearly most people on the internet have very short attention spans. im referring to those who havent even answered the question cause of the length)
that or all you can really do is wait til she hits rock bottom and is vulnerable and has low self esteem, be there once more but let that be the last time. hopefully then she'll see her ways. that or just whoop her @$$ if you're really that upset with her(chances are I would be too if I was in her shoes).
but best thing is to just let go of her and her paris hilton and nicole richie like ways.She's ignorant, selfish, conceded, and clueless. What do you think? (read my rant)?
Get off the internet.
I had a friend like that, she ended up talking trash about saying I said something bad about people. Just because she was jealous that we weren't hanging out anymore. I just fought her and beat her *** on Thursday.
This girl starts to cake on the make-up. Addict herself to Facebook, take thousands of pictures and post them on Facebook as well. She also makes her voice even higher then it actually is. Plus she's those kind of girls that use WAY too much slang on the internet, then she does in real life, if she does use it, it comes out un-natural and awkward. For instance ';Yessir, Chyea, BRAP!'; .. oh man.
So anyways since high school has mellowed we haven't spoken to each other. Quick flashback; me and her and a couple of my other close friends / not any more. Were in those very childish groups that you make with your first initial of your name so ';jerkss';. The girl I'm talking about wouldn't even let us consider the fact of constructive criticism if we wanted to tell her something about her make-up being too much (eyeliner.. :| oh Lord) Or how skinny she is, because pffft of course friends tell their friends about their body, she was just really skinny, and she barely ate. Not even lunch.
So then she started getting all these friends, by being ';nice'; (Pretty much two-faced, you should know how it is) and by giving people stuff who she barely even knew. She uses her excuse of being nice to other people to not have any time for me and my friends. My other friend went to a different high school, so she doesn't know how it is anymore.
I've vented to her about mostly all of my problems between friends, and she's vented to me probably twice as much. But she can't even consider talking to me at least saying hi, to me or my friends? She says on Facebook, (Facebook because she can't say this to my face or my friends faces) that we are ';always'; there for her if she'd be in a bad mood. So I commented back ';We're always there for you, yet you don't even have to time to talk to us.'; She deleted that note, because she obviously doesn't want her ';new'; friends to see 8-) whatever.
And in a recent note she wrote
';I've realized that I lost many bestfriends, but gained them too.';,
';the people who I cared about the most, (I still care about them) but noticed how much they piss me off, when I haven't done anything to them.'; (Right because you HAVEN'T done anything to us, not a word but we WERE there for you when you needed some support),
';Everyone's equal, no one is more special, or has more advantages to me.I realized its stupid to have catorgorize your friends, everyones just equal, and no higher then anyone else.'; (I'm sorry but do you think I want your attention and friendship after all of this BS? )
';I really miss them , but I can't do anything about it now.
its ethier one or another being my top priority .. It's hard to make them be equal =( but I wish I could.. I should try at least .. but they don't want me back ..'; (OH soft!)
I forgot to mention that she only uses my friends and the group of people I hang out with as rebounds when she can't find her ';new friends'; She's had more then 9 boyfriends, and girl is only in the 9th grade. She worries about what people think about her, and go off about it on her notes. But unlike her I rather not tell her to avoid the amount of gossip and confrontation I would get from her unnecessary friends. She's soft, and she has no influence of defending herself because when I tried to tell her to stop being two-faced and to stop being nice to people (because you can only be nice up to a point) she would only use the excuse of people ';hating'; on her for being ';mean';.
So now she has all the fake friends any fake two-faced girl could ask for. She photo shops her pictures and blurs out her blemishes. All she does at the caf. is run around talking to people, she's what you would call a ';social butterfly'; but the one's that don't have a grounded perspective on life. I'd like to give her a reality check on life, but I know.. oh I KNOW, that I would be likely to swear at her, more then I would be able to be calm about this situation. She's caused me to hate her a lot more then I would hate Stephen Fowler. LOL. But none the less, she has a problem. And I might even have a big enough problem if I don't get this off my back soon. At least she thinks or knows she's happy. I'm too much observant about people's behaviors and it really bothers me.
I'd like to know what I should do, what do you think of my behavior towards this? And what do you think of hers? I don't want you guys to hate her, because ya'll don't know her. But if you were in my shoes, what would you do?
I'm open to any kind of comments, and answers.She's ignorant, selfish, conceded, and clueless. What do you think? (read my rant)?
act like she's dead. clearly she's not even worth the trouble(clearly most people on the internet have very short attention spans. im referring to those who havent even answered the question cause of the length)
that or all you can really do is wait til she hits rock bottom and is vulnerable and has low self esteem, be there once more but let that be the last time. hopefully then she'll see her ways. that or just whoop her @$$ if you're really that upset with her(chances are I would be too if I was in her shoes).
but best thing is to just let go of her and her paris hilton and nicole richie like ways.She's ignorant, selfish, conceded, and clueless. What do you think? (read my rant)?
Get off the internet.
I had a friend like that, she ended up talking trash about saying I said something bad about people. Just because she was jealous that we weren't hanging out anymore. I just fought her and beat her *** on Thursday.
Help finding a MP3 to 3G2 song converter to make ringtone for Samsung (rant).?
I have a Samsung Rant from sprint and when I make ringtones, I need to convert them to 3G2 files so that they will work as ringtones in my phone. What is the best free MP3 to 3G2 converter that I can get for free online, so that it can quickly convert the files. AVS for you is **** and doesn't work.
What is the best converter for this that I can download so I can convert these files asap?Help finding a MP3 to 3G2 song converter to make ringtone for Samsung (rant).?
www.ventones.com
make or download ringtones
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What is the best converter for this that I can download so I can convert these files asap?Help finding a MP3 to 3G2 song converter to make ringtone for Samsung (rant).?
www.ventones.com
make or download ringtones
it works awesome!
Should Serena Williams be banned from the US Open for her racist rant?
Back up it goes!
I think she should be banned for at least one more year. Now she's trying to back track and say she wants to give the line ref a hug. Barf! hack choke! She makes me sick. I hate her attitude. Someone needs to just give her a beat down once or twice for a reality check. But then so does a lot of other ';stars'; like Kanye West...
2009-09-14 17:03:58Additional
As a reminder she said, ';I would kill you, you fat ugly ****!'; among other things. I guess people don't care much about sportsmanship anymore. Remember when Monica Seles was banned from Wimbledon just for not showing up because she was in the hospital and didn't notify them?Should Serena Williams be banned from the US Open for her racist rant?
Yes, she deserves more than the slap on the wrist she received.
Her apology was so bogus it made me sick. She needs to be suspended from all grand slams %26amp; fed cup for a year. Also she should not be allowed to represent the US in the Olympics. She is an embarrassment to tennis. Make her play the minor tourneys but no majorsShould Serena Williams be banned from the US Open for her racist rant?
I agree what she did was horrible, but not to that point. I think maybe they should of banned her for the 2010 USOP but not for ever, and i think she should of at least tried to sound a little more convincing in her apology. I personally think they don't want to Comfort Serena since without her female tennis is just sad to watch, even with V and Klijsters
What racist rant?
The lines woman should never be allowed to officiate another tennis match.
Everyone knows there is no love between the African-American and the Asian American communities. So I was no surprised by the racist lines person's false call.
The the mere fact that you're bringing up Kanye West who has nothing to do with tennis tells me who the real racist is.
next...
I don't think it was racist, what gives you reason to think it was racist? Are you some kind of liberal?
From what I heard, she said ';If I could, I'd take this **** ball and shove it down your ******* throat.';
Even if she did threaten to kill her, which she didn't do, that still isn't racist.
BW
Racist?! Are you retarded? Or are you a racist? People like you make ME sick. I hate YOUR attitude. Someone needs to just give YOU a beat down once or twice for a reality check. To make something racial that had nothing to do with race, YOU SUCK!!!
I think she has been punished sufficiently. Also, I don't remember anything like that about Seles, and I don't believe it either. If you don't show up in time, you just lose your match.
I don't know. But sportsmanship is obviously very important, too. Well, she lost the match eventually, so I'll pass it as a punishment for her attitude.
PERSONALLY...I THINK ITS LIFE....EVERYBODY CANT HAVE IT THEIR WAY...YES I THINK THE WAY SHE HANDLED IT WAS RUDE...BUT AT LEAST SHE DIDN'T HIT HER ACROSS THE HEAD WITH THE RACKET OR SOMETHING. I DON'T THINK THAT ITS REALLY THAT SERIOUS...ITS LIFE!!!!
She should be suspended for the next grand slam match for threatening an official. Too bad she won't though. That would be discrimination.
She does deserved to be banned. I mean, 10,000 is nothing to her. It was just another way for her to get more attention.
the matter has been settled now.
give a rest willya!
How about no?
No.......she got fine for 10,500 ..........that's enough
i think that people should move on with their lives
no
no
That line judge is the worst excuse for a game official that I've seen in a long, long time. She should not be used again. That whole debacle was a convenient way to get Serena out of the tournament. The 2 high-ranking officials that came out should be sent packing as well. Kim Clijsters will always be remembered as the one that had the US Open handed to her.beach makeup bad acne
I think she should be banned for at least one more year. Now she's trying to back track and say she wants to give the line ref a hug. Barf! hack choke! She makes me sick. I hate her attitude. Someone needs to just give her a beat down once or twice for a reality check. But then so does a lot of other ';stars'; like Kanye West...
2009-09-14 17:03:58Additional
As a reminder she said, ';I would kill you, you fat ugly ****!'; among other things. I guess people don't care much about sportsmanship anymore. Remember when Monica Seles was banned from Wimbledon just for not showing up because she was in the hospital and didn't notify them?Should Serena Williams be banned from the US Open for her racist rant?
Yes, she deserves more than the slap on the wrist she received.
Her apology was so bogus it made me sick. She needs to be suspended from all grand slams %26amp; fed cup for a year. Also she should not be allowed to represent the US in the Olympics. She is an embarrassment to tennis. Make her play the minor tourneys but no majorsShould Serena Williams be banned from the US Open for her racist rant?
I agree what she did was horrible, but not to that point. I think maybe they should of banned her for the 2010 USOP but not for ever, and i think she should of at least tried to sound a little more convincing in her apology. I personally think they don't want to Comfort Serena since without her female tennis is just sad to watch, even with V and Klijsters
What racist rant?
The lines woman should never be allowed to officiate another tennis match.
Everyone knows there is no love between the African-American and the Asian American communities. So I was no surprised by the racist lines person's false call.
The the mere fact that you're bringing up Kanye West who has nothing to do with tennis tells me who the real racist is.
next...
I don't think it was racist, what gives you reason to think it was racist? Are you some kind of liberal?
From what I heard, she said ';If I could, I'd take this **** ball and shove it down your ******* throat.';
Even if she did threaten to kill her, which she didn't do, that still isn't racist.
BW
Racist?! Are you retarded? Or are you a racist? People like you make ME sick. I hate YOUR attitude. Someone needs to just give YOU a beat down once or twice for a reality check. To make something racial that had nothing to do with race, YOU SUCK!!!
I think she has been punished sufficiently. Also, I don't remember anything like that about Seles, and I don't believe it either. If you don't show up in time, you just lose your match.
I don't know. But sportsmanship is obviously very important, too. Well, she lost the match eventually, so I'll pass it as a punishment for her attitude.
PERSONALLY...I THINK ITS LIFE....EVERYBODY CANT HAVE IT THEIR WAY...YES I THINK THE WAY SHE HANDLED IT WAS RUDE...BUT AT LEAST SHE DIDN'T HIT HER ACROSS THE HEAD WITH THE RACKET OR SOMETHING. I DON'T THINK THAT ITS REALLY THAT SERIOUS...ITS LIFE!!!!
She should be suspended for the next grand slam match for threatening an official. Too bad she won't though. That would be discrimination.
She does deserved to be banned. I mean, 10,000 is nothing to her. It was just another way for her to get more attention.
the matter has been settled now.
give a rest willya!
How about no?
No.......she got fine for 10,500 ..........that's enough
i think that people should move on with their lives
no
no
That line judge is the worst excuse for a game official that I've seen in a long, long time. She should not be used again. That whole debacle was a convenient way to get Serena out of the tournament. The 2 high-ranking officials that came out should be sent packing as well. Kim Clijsters will always be remembered as the one that had the US Open handed to her.
Help finding a MP3 to 3G2 song converter to make ringtone for Samsung (rant).?
I have a Samsung Rant from sprint and when I make ringtones, I need to convert them to 3G2 files so that they will work as ringtones in my phone. What is the best free MP3 to 3G2 converter that I can get for free online, so that it can quickly convert the files. AVS for you is **** and doesn't work.
What is the best converter for this that I can download so I can convert these files asap?Help finding a MP3 to 3G2 song converter to make ringtone for Samsung (rant).?
www.ventones.com
make or download ringtones
it works awesome!
What is the best converter for this that I can download so I can convert these files asap?Help finding a MP3 to 3G2 song converter to make ringtone for Samsung (rant).?
www.ventones.com
make or download ringtones
it works awesome!
Can i get sue for libel or other things if I post my rant of my previous landlord on Craigslist?
So, my previous landlord is a ******* cheat and is still holding my deposit. I think i'm gonna sue him. Now he's listing his apartments on craigslist, so if I post -- anonymously of course-- my rant and imply (nothing explicitly referring to his property of course) that I'm referring to his apartments, will I get sue or something? Sure, I expect my post to get taken out but at least I got read. Please stay on topic and don't tell me about how this is a P u ss-y/cheap method or what not. I am dumbfounded by how restricted the medium is to expose unethical landlords.
and yeah, i'm gonna post under the same housing/apt for rent section so the most interested party can actually read itCan i get sue for libel or other things if I post my rant of my previous landlord on Craigslist?
1st the best defense for libel is the truth, if what you say can be objectively proven he could sue but wouldn't win. But in the real world there is a good chance that your posting will be flagged almost immediately.Can i get sue for libel or other things if I post my rant of my previous landlord on Craigslist?
Some unnamed person can be sued for libel, but not you, if there is not a way for you to be identified.
But be aware that you would need to be posting from some public computer, not your personal or work computer.
If the landlord thinks it is you, it may happen of course that you will be accused of all manner of misdeeds, likely right where you posted.
Now you have a problem. your friends will think you are one scumbag and you dare not respond if there is anything libelous in your original post.
If you say it, make sure it is so. Not just approximately but exactly with no sense of spin.
sheesh man, if there were more like you the landlords would really try to change the laws so they'd steal your cash more.You need a lawyer and the BBB probably don't know how to help ya either but you can report his actions to them,but I would definately sue and turn him over to the authorities if and this is a big if he's neglecting his property , he can see his apt's bulldozed down if it's way out of league with the newer apt's cause of the building code. There's building code's to see about . :) oh the evilness of taking out a landlord when they so deserve it. makes ya jump for joy don't it??? lol. anyways take care and try to befriend a lawyer will ya??? it helps to see if you can get free advice.
and yeah, i'm gonna post under the same housing/apt for rent section so the most interested party can actually read itCan i get sue for libel or other things if I post my rant of my previous landlord on Craigslist?
1st the best defense for libel is the truth, if what you say can be objectively proven he could sue but wouldn't win. But in the real world there is a good chance that your posting will be flagged almost immediately.Can i get sue for libel or other things if I post my rant of my previous landlord on Craigslist?
Some unnamed person can be sued for libel, but not you, if there is not a way for you to be identified.
But be aware that you would need to be posting from some public computer, not your personal or work computer.
If the landlord thinks it is you, it may happen of course that you will be accused of all manner of misdeeds, likely right where you posted.
Now you have a problem. your friends will think you are one scumbag and you dare not respond if there is anything libelous in your original post.
If you say it, make sure it is so. Not just approximately but exactly with no sense of spin.
sheesh man, if there were more like you the landlords would really try to change the laws so they'd steal your cash more.You need a lawyer and the BBB probably don't know how to help ya either but you can report his actions to them,but I would definately sue and turn him over to the authorities if and this is a big if he's neglecting his property , he can see his apt's bulldozed down if it's way out of league with the newer apt's cause of the building code. There's building code's to see about . :) oh the evilness of taking out a landlord when they so deserve it. makes ya jump for joy don't it??? lol. anyways take care and try to befriend a lawyer will ya??? it helps to see if you can get free advice.
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