I don't think it's that well-planned. I think he's an emotional tool who just blocks when something which challenges him to think comes up. I don't expect too much cleverness from the creationist crowd.Did anyone else find they were blocked after giving an intelligent reply to counting crows rant creation rant?
I guess I'm not sure what happens when you're 'blocked.'; Does that mean you can't reply to his posts? in which case, no, I haven't been blocked, although he seriously annoyed me by taking one of my arguments completely out of context.Did anyone else find they were blocked after giving an intelligent reply to counting crows rant creation rant?
He blocked me, so I just nailed him with a different account. I don't know which is dumber, Yahoo mgt. or the trolls.
I was not blocked. Forgive me if I disagree with your estimation of your answer. While I understand your frustration, can't say I don't also understand why you were blocked.
No, but I found myself blocked from someone whose question I could not find any record of having answered! I guess he didn't like my answers to other questions. He didn't even want me to read his! LOL
Why would you bother giving an intelligent answer to a rant?
No, but I was blocked on another question...
This dude sounds like a big baby.
You did call him/her stupid, uneducated and arrogant. You'll be lucky if he/she doesn't report you, because unfortunately, insulting other users (calling them names) is against the Y!A community guidelines. I am definitely not a creationist and even though you made very good points, your attitude turned me off. I myself can be a bit blunt when giving my opinion, yet I do my best not to call names. The next time you want to call someone arrogant, you may consider taking a hard look in the mirror first. Just a friendly suggestion. :)
Thursday, December 31, 2009
How do i get a song from ventones using my sprint rant without internet?
ok well i followed all the steps so the link in the page says You will need a specially formatted ring tone
Download the Ring tone from the link Below
Click Here and Wait 5 to 10 Seconds to Make Your Video Ring tone
so i click on it but then it takes me to the same page and this time the midle link says You will need a specially formatted ring tone
Download the Ring tone from the link Below
Right Click Here To Download your Special Free Sprint Ring tone!
so i click on the link i see my song playing g nad that's all no file or anything my question is how do i get the file so i can put it on my phone?How do i get a song from ventones using my sprint rant without internet?
what browser are you using?
thats the file! its supposed to be a video file!
you have to right click with your mouse,
and then select SAVE AS or SAVE TARGET AS (if using internet explorer)
and download that file with the baby on it!
i researched that question too once. i use ventones to download free ringtones for my sprint phone without internet too, here are the steps that i copied and pasted once from someone else and it works perfect.
Step1
a) upload an mp3 file
OR
b) use any youtube video to make the ringtone from their site
step2
crop the file to however many seconds you want with their free online ringtone maker
step3
after you finished making the ringtone (don't press the send to phone button)
click on the ';sprint customers without internet'; button
step4
that will take you to the
FREE SPRINT RINGTONES WITHOUT INTERNET PAGE
step5
click on a link in the middle of the page
step6
wait a few seconds and then you will see a link to download the new specially formatted sprint ringtone file
step7
transfer that file (it should be in .3g2 format, NOT in mp3 format) to your dcim folder (memory card).
Download the Ring tone from the link Below
Click Here and Wait 5 to 10 Seconds to Make Your Video Ring tone
so i click on it but then it takes me to the same page and this time the midle link says You will need a specially formatted ring tone
Download the Ring tone from the link Below
Right Click Here To Download your Special Free Sprint Ring tone!
so i click on the link i see my song playing g nad that's all no file or anything my question is how do i get the file so i can put it on my phone?How do i get a song from ventones using my sprint rant without internet?
what browser are you using?
thats the file! its supposed to be a video file!
you have to right click with your mouse,
and then select SAVE AS or SAVE TARGET AS (if using internet explorer)
and download that file with the baby on it!
i researched that question too once. i use ventones to download free ringtones for my sprint phone without internet too, here are the steps that i copied and pasted once from someone else and it works perfect.
Step1
a) upload an mp3 file
OR
b) use any youtube video to make the ringtone from their site
step2
crop the file to however many seconds you want with their free online ringtone maker
step3
after you finished making the ringtone (don't press the send to phone button)
click on the ';sprint customers without internet'; button
step4
that will take you to the
FREE SPRINT RINGTONES WITHOUT INTERNET PAGE
step5
click on a link in the middle of the page
step6
wait a few seconds and then you will see a link to download the new specially formatted sprint ringtone file
step7
transfer that file (it should be in .3g2 format, NOT in mp3 format) to your dcim folder (memory card).
The Hardest workin man in the under ground Biz... AKA MURS RAnt.. i wont do it again after this. lol?
Okay.. so im sure(or i hope) we all know that crazy haired, Crazy Rhymin, Black guy MURS.
First off, i'd like to say MURS dont get enough Credit.
This dude is doin so much shyt, and still keepin it real. How can he not be considered one of the best?
Who is out there right now as good. Or let alone working as hard as him?
answer: Nobody..
AND
dude is versatile. makin all kinds of music and workin wit alot of dif ppl
Slug %26amp; MURS(Felt)
Living Legends
3 Melancholy Gypsies
MURS 3:16
MURS and 9th Wonder
and Solo stuff.. Which is different from everything named above
but, im just sayin... Like i said. it was a rant..
but he has about 4 classic albums(if not more), and his own tour..
But, hey if u dont agree.. its ok
hopefully, one day u will see the truth.
And his name is Patch Carter or Patch Cannon or Nick Cannon or somethin like that.
MURS..
ok, but one last question..
Who has been makin the best music since 2000?(besides MF DOOM. lol im jk..)(or am i???)(no. i am)(...not)(sure)The Hardest workin man in the under ground Biz... AKA MURS RAnt.. i wont do it again after this. lol?
I've followed MURS from LL (Living Legends) to his stint with Def Jux to now and he is nothing short of f**king great in my book...I just caught him @ Rock the Bells earlier this month and the guy put on a great show...He should be mentioned more, but I would assume few know of how much work he has put in...I believe his dues have been paid and it's his time to shine.The Hardest workin man in the under ground Biz... AKA MURS RAnt.. i wont do it again after this. lol?
MURS is the fukcing man but theres so many underground emcees that need respect that deserve so much more Immortal technique being one of them also he is one of the realest MURS is just so bro tho in the top 2 for sure haha yeah slug is ridiculous also but he is starting to get his props up from people he deserves it tho just wish people could respect murs and immortal doom so on so on..
Making Underground Raw Sh!t
MURS = Best West Coast rapper
He even has a song with John Cena lol
in the mainstream I'd say Lupe's put out the best stuff since 2000....can't think of much right now...*tired*
yea i agree.
he doesnt get enough cred. but as soon as his stuff surfaces a lil bit more he'll be well known.
i like Doom better than Murs by a little....but Murs is the best west coast rapper out there right now...
his work is great.
when did u get on this MURS trip? u didnt use to be like this? how long has it been a few months or what? what did u hear or learn that made u fall in love with MURS? cuz i think ur in love homie
I like Murs, and I agree that he doesn't get enough credit.btw I'm going to see him and the rest of the Living Legends(The Grouch won't be their though):( on Saturday :)
ur mad annoyin, stop tryin 2 force ur music taste on otha ppl.
First off, i'd like to say MURS dont get enough Credit.
This dude is doin so much shyt, and still keepin it real. How can he not be considered one of the best?
Who is out there right now as good. Or let alone working as hard as him?
answer: Nobody..
AND
dude is versatile. makin all kinds of music and workin wit alot of dif ppl
Slug %26amp; MURS(Felt)
Living Legends
3 Melancholy Gypsies
MURS 3:16
MURS and 9th Wonder
and Solo stuff.. Which is different from everything named above
but, im just sayin... Like i said. it was a rant..
but he has about 4 classic albums(if not more), and his own tour..
But, hey if u dont agree.. its ok
hopefully, one day u will see the truth.
And his name is Patch Carter or Patch Cannon or Nick Cannon or somethin like that.
MURS..
ok, but one last question..
Who has been makin the best music since 2000?(besides MF DOOM. lol im jk..)(or am i???)(no. i am)(...not)(sure)The Hardest workin man in the under ground Biz... AKA MURS RAnt.. i wont do it again after this. lol?
I've followed MURS from LL (Living Legends) to his stint with Def Jux to now and he is nothing short of f**king great in my book...I just caught him @ Rock the Bells earlier this month and the guy put on a great show...He should be mentioned more, but I would assume few know of how much work he has put in...I believe his dues have been paid and it's his time to shine.The Hardest workin man in the under ground Biz... AKA MURS RAnt.. i wont do it again after this. lol?
MURS is the fukcing man but theres so many underground emcees that need respect that deserve so much more Immortal technique being one of them also he is one of the realest MURS is just so bro tho in the top 2 for sure haha yeah slug is ridiculous also but he is starting to get his props up from people he deserves it tho just wish people could respect murs and immortal doom so on so on..
Making Underground Raw Sh!t
MURS = Best West Coast rapper
He even has a song with John Cena lol
in the mainstream I'd say Lupe's put out the best stuff since 2000....can't think of much right now...*tired*
yea i agree.
he doesnt get enough cred. but as soon as his stuff surfaces a lil bit more he'll be well known.
i like Doom better than Murs by a little....but Murs is the best west coast rapper out there right now...
his work is great.
when did u get on this MURS trip? u didnt use to be like this? how long has it been a few months or what? what did u hear or learn that made u fall in love with MURS? cuz i think ur in love homie
I like Murs, and I agree that he doesn't get enough credit.btw I'm going to see him and the rest of the Living Legends(The Grouch won't be their though):( on Saturday :)
ur mad annoyin, stop tryin 2 force ur music taste on otha ppl.
Pillz pillz and more pillz whats the deal? more of a rant than a question really?
i keep seeing all these commercials for pills that make men ';bigger'; you know what i mean? well before i only saw these things like late at night and on more adult channels and definitely not as often but i was watching night at the museum on FX earlier and that commercial came on during every single Commercial break.... and its not just then, im seeing more frequently everywhere and its getting uncomfortable when your watching something with your family. an whats up with those pills anyway? do you have to Take them for the rest of your life? and is it like weight lifting? as soon as you atop will your body just go to ruins? or in that case, will your penis super shrink as soon as you stop taking it? anyway, just needed to rant.... sorryPillz pillz and more pillz whats the deal? more of a rant than a question really?
I was watching a movie on BET last week, and the same thing happened to me. Every time a commercial came on, it was the same exact one. Something about male enhancement, and me and my boyfriend were watchin the movie together, and he started to get really annoyed lol. there really isnt a problem with his size, but it annoys me also, because thats just another way of people tryin to tell others what they ';need'; to be, instead of feeling comfortable in their own shoes.Pillz pillz and more pillz whats the deal? more of a rant than a question really?
im sorry, just ignore it or go do somethin like get food or check on somethin when its on.
now read my poem please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Those commercials are hilarious and i think if your not big enough to compete with others then you need to find other ways to please your partner and boost your self confidence up
The pills don't work. And if you don't like the commercials, change the channel when they are on.
a penis is an excuse for no brains
you have to have corn flakes to enjoy a penis
I would never try those pills.
I was watching a movie on BET last week, and the same thing happened to me. Every time a commercial came on, it was the same exact one. Something about male enhancement, and me and my boyfriend were watchin the movie together, and he started to get really annoyed lol. there really isnt a problem with his size, but it annoys me also, because thats just another way of people tryin to tell others what they ';need'; to be, instead of feeling comfortable in their own shoes.Pillz pillz and more pillz whats the deal? more of a rant than a question really?
im sorry, just ignore it or go do somethin like get food or check on somethin when its on.
now read my poem please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Those commercials are hilarious and i think if your not big enough to compete with others then you need to find other ways to please your partner and boost your self confidence up
The pills don't work. And if you don't like the commercials, change the channel when they are on.
a penis is an excuse for no brains
you have to have corn flakes to enjoy a penis
I would never try those pills.
I just need to get it all out? [Pretty much a rant about my life]?
By all means if you don't wanna hear my rantin' about my life, don't read this.
It'll be fairly long and I'll probably sound like a suicidal chick. Well I'm not. I've thought suicidal thoughts before, but never even tried to attempt them.
I guess I should start with my social life.
I've never had a boyfriend, I'm 14, and I've never even been asked out. Don't judge me but I'm I guess you could call it ';above average'; on the weight issue. But I'm currently fixing that. Well trying. Anyways I've been teased throughout elementary school for that, and also for my yellowish teeth which are becoming whiter. It was hurtful all the way till 4th grade, when I moved schools. It was a school in Chinatown, and I was the only white person in the class. When I got there, I thought everything was going to change, but it didn't. It got worse. They spread rumors, talked behind my back, told the teacher I cheated on tests in reality I didn't, but they assumed I did because I'm white. It was hell, until 6th grade, where I got 3 friends. From 4th-6th I had all of 1 friend from my old school who I hardly spoke to anymore. Those 3 friends became my best friends. One of them and I became particularly close, and we were always talking/hanging out until 8th grade. Then one day I get mad at her because I asked her to bring my Spanish book home, [I was absent that day] And I'd go to her house and pick it up. She responded with a flat out ';no.'; Take in mind we were the best of friends. Her excuse was because she had a math textbook and it would be too heavy. So after that I wouldn't talk to her. But after a week I started talking to her, but she was giving me attitude and then she started ignoring me. We haven't talked since, And that's been about 5 months ago. I miss her. A lot. I need someone to talk to about so much right now, but nobody will really listen.
Anyways about my other 2 best friends. One of them goes to a different school and we hang out occasionally. We're still best friends. We had plans to go to a DewTour on Saturday, but they both said they didn't wanna last minute. Even though they know how much I wanted to go. So about my other best friend. She's probably the closest friend I have. About a month and a half ago though, she got a boyfriend. Oh boy how I hate relationships. They ruin everything. She started calling him at night instead of me. Canceling plans with me so she can hang out with him. Sleeping over his house for weeks and not even bothering to text/call/IM me throughout ANY of those days. I told her about this and she complained that she always has to start the convo. Even though whenever I DID call her, she was too busy getting funky with him. And that'd just piss me off so much because she doesn't listen to me AT ALL when she's with him. I was talking to her last night, while she was sleeping over, and I told her this whole story, then today I talk to her, and make a comment about that story, and she's like ..';What story?';
It's like talking to a wall =\
She always chooses him over me, and I'm sick of it because she knows basically she's all I have.
My mom and I always get into fights, like physical fights. But she doesn't hurt me too bad, because we usually just get so mad we slap, kick, hit, etc as hard as we can. But I defend myself well.
Also, The ONLY living thing I could rely on, my cat, is missing.
She's an outdoor/indoor cat, but as of Monday morning, we haven't seen her. It's been nearly 5 days, raining 4/5 of them, and nobody has seen her. I'm so sad about this...Not even sad, more like heartbroken. I've cried and still am so much these few days. I really want my cat back. :\
Thennn today happened too.
I have this summer job, which is basically an art class.
Lucky me, everyone in this class thing is 17+ and only 2 others are female whom of which are all over the guys. There's only about 10 people total. So today, I'm sitting there doing Origami like the teacher guy told me to. Then I feel this sharp pain in my right arm. This [not to be racist] black guy and his ';friends'; [Again not to be racist but you know how when guys get together and they do stupid stuff? Black guys in particular. NOT ALL. But the ones in my area. The hoodlums?] are throwing stuff at my arm. First scissors, then a tape roll, then pens, then pencils. While I'm just sitting there, with my back turned to them, making Origami. Literally everyone there was laughing. Including the teacher guy. I can't really tell anybody about it, because there's not really any ';higher official'; that works there. Only one guy had this sympathetic look on his face, and to distract me showed me his drawing. But it really hurt to get a red, swollen arm and to get laughed at, for what, no reason?
So I told my ';best friend'; the story of my cat and what happened today, and she said ';WOW HAHA SHE'S DEAD!'; ...
I can't even describe words I had. I flipped out on her. Thennn I was trying to calm down, and I said ';Ugh my life is just a pilI just need to get it all out? [Pretty much a rant about my life]?
Oohman girl : / Thats a lot.... I think that writing is definitely a way for you to get your frustrations out...you're good at writing.
Teenage years are tough...we've all been there. But it willll get better! Its just a lot to handle... You should try joining an after school club or play or hobby...thats always a better way of making friends. The friends you're hanging out with now seem a little shady...I don't know if I would trust them very much. I'm sorry to hear about your cat...you should see if you can maybe work at an animal shelter or something, instead? Its a good summer/afterschool job %26amp; you can probably find a new cat there...%26amp; friendlier people :)
Keep your chin up! You'll be ok :)I just need to get it all out? [Pretty much a rant about my life]?
how can some one just say '; get over it'; like a tool.... your obviously not feeling to well.... see a counselor for now girl :) tell him everything you wrote here
GET THE **** OVER IT
I feel bad for you :((((((
and the person who commented before me sucks a**.
I dont' know what to tell you... :(
therapy might be nice, to have someone to vent to
get another pet, even though you may not want to have to move on
but it'd be nice for you
find some comfort object, and i know that sounds weird, like ';get a blanky'; or something, but it helps to cry into a stuffed animal or something
Okay. Advice. Write in a journal. Give your friends some space, You'll be boy crazy one day too. And life gets worse trust me. Handling these issues now will help you deal with things in the future. Especially when you get boy crazy, They'll mess you up like nothing else. Focus on the good things in your life. People are drawn to people that enjoy life and That's the little things like being thankful for what you have and screw the things you don't.
Do you want suggestion? Do you have any questions?
I want to help but dont know if you want help or just to get it out....
first of all if i was you at that art class today i would of told those guys to f*** off!!!!! then about the ';best friend'; thing if she can't make time to hang with you then don't bother hanging out with her there are sooooo many other people that you could hang out with and then about your mom. my step dad is like mean but like he just play hits me and i found that the best thing to do is just to ignore him/her if she talks to you try to avoid talking to much and try to like not be home so much that's why you need to find a really good friend someone that you can hang out with all the time and you can basically be sisters with. ok well hope i helped : )
look im 14 too if u wanna talk add me on myspace or shoot me an email ma myspace email is youngmeindanyc@aim.com if u want shoot me and email im here for u
It'll be fairly long and I'll probably sound like a suicidal chick. Well I'm not. I've thought suicidal thoughts before, but never even tried to attempt them.
I guess I should start with my social life.
I've never had a boyfriend, I'm 14, and I've never even been asked out. Don't judge me but I'm I guess you could call it ';above average'; on the weight issue. But I'm currently fixing that. Well trying. Anyways I've been teased throughout elementary school for that, and also for my yellowish teeth which are becoming whiter. It was hurtful all the way till 4th grade, when I moved schools. It was a school in Chinatown, and I was the only white person in the class. When I got there, I thought everything was going to change, but it didn't. It got worse. They spread rumors, talked behind my back, told the teacher I cheated on tests in reality I didn't, but they assumed I did because I'm white. It was hell, until 6th grade, where I got 3 friends. From 4th-6th I had all of 1 friend from my old school who I hardly spoke to anymore. Those 3 friends became my best friends. One of them and I became particularly close, and we were always talking/hanging out until 8th grade. Then one day I get mad at her because I asked her to bring my Spanish book home, [I was absent that day] And I'd go to her house and pick it up. She responded with a flat out ';no.'; Take in mind we were the best of friends. Her excuse was because she had a math textbook and it would be too heavy. So after that I wouldn't talk to her. But after a week I started talking to her, but she was giving me attitude and then she started ignoring me. We haven't talked since, And that's been about 5 months ago. I miss her. A lot. I need someone to talk to about so much right now, but nobody will really listen.
Anyways about my other 2 best friends. One of them goes to a different school and we hang out occasionally. We're still best friends. We had plans to go to a DewTour on Saturday, but they both said they didn't wanna last minute. Even though they know how much I wanted to go. So about my other best friend. She's probably the closest friend I have. About a month and a half ago though, she got a boyfriend. Oh boy how I hate relationships. They ruin everything. She started calling him at night instead of me. Canceling plans with me so she can hang out with him. Sleeping over his house for weeks and not even bothering to text/call/IM me throughout ANY of those days. I told her about this and she complained that she always has to start the convo. Even though whenever I DID call her, she was too busy getting funky with him. And that'd just piss me off so much because she doesn't listen to me AT ALL when she's with him. I was talking to her last night, while she was sleeping over, and I told her this whole story, then today I talk to her, and make a comment about that story, and she's like ..';What story?';
It's like talking to a wall =\
She always chooses him over me, and I'm sick of it because she knows basically she's all I have.
My mom and I always get into fights, like physical fights. But she doesn't hurt me too bad, because we usually just get so mad we slap, kick, hit, etc as hard as we can. But I defend myself well.
Also, The ONLY living thing I could rely on, my cat, is missing.
She's an outdoor/indoor cat, but as of Monday morning, we haven't seen her. It's been nearly 5 days, raining 4/5 of them, and nobody has seen her. I'm so sad about this...Not even sad, more like heartbroken. I've cried and still am so much these few days. I really want my cat back. :\
Thennn today happened too.
I have this summer job, which is basically an art class.
Lucky me, everyone in this class thing is 17+ and only 2 others are female whom of which are all over the guys. There's only about 10 people total. So today, I'm sitting there doing Origami like the teacher guy told me to. Then I feel this sharp pain in my right arm. This [not to be racist] black guy and his ';friends'; [Again not to be racist but you know how when guys get together and they do stupid stuff? Black guys in particular. NOT ALL. But the ones in my area. The hoodlums?] are throwing stuff at my arm. First scissors, then a tape roll, then pens, then pencils. While I'm just sitting there, with my back turned to them, making Origami. Literally everyone there was laughing. Including the teacher guy. I can't really tell anybody about it, because there's not really any ';higher official'; that works there. Only one guy had this sympathetic look on his face, and to distract me showed me his drawing. But it really hurt to get a red, swollen arm and to get laughed at, for what, no reason?
So I told my ';best friend'; the story of my cat and what happened today, and she said ';WOW HAHA SHE'S DEAD!'; ...
I can't even describe words I had. I flipped out on her. Thennn I was trying to calm down, and I said ';Ugh my life is just a pilI just need to get it all out? [Pretty much a rant about my life]?
Oohman girl : / Thats a lot.... I think that writing is definitely a way for you to get your frustrations out...you're good at writing.
Teenage years are tough...we've all been there. But it willll get better! Its just a lot to handle... You should try joining an after school club or play or hobby...thats always a better way of making friends. The friends you're hanging out with now seem a little shady...I don't know if I would trust them very much. I'm sorry to hear about your cat...you should see if you can maybe work at an animal shelter or something, instead? Its a good summer/afterschool job %26amp; you can probably find a new cat there...%26amp; friendlier people :)
Keep your chin up! You'll be ok :)I just need to get it all out? [Pretty much a rant about my life]?
how can some one just say '; get over it'; like a tool.... your obviously not feeling to well.... see a counselor for now girl :) tell him everything you wrote here
GET THE **** OVER IT
I feel bad for you :((((((
and the person who commented before me sucks a**.
I dont' know what to tell you... :(
therapy might be nice, to have someone to vent to
get another pet, even though you may not want to have to move on
but it'd be nice for you
find some comfort object, and i know that sounds weird, like ';get a blanky'; or something, but it helps to cry into a stuffed animal or something
Okay. Advice. Write in a journal. Give your friends some space, You'll be boy crazy one day too. And life gets worse trust me. Handling these issues now will help you deal with things in the future. Especially when you get boy crazy, They'll mess you up like nothing else. Focus on the good things in your life. People are drawn to people that enjoy life and That's the little things like being thankful for what you have and screw the things you don't.
Do you want suggestion? Do you have any questions?
I want to help but dont know if you want help or just to get it out....
first of all if i was you at that art class today i would of told those guys to f*** off!!!!! then about the ';best friend'; thing if she can't make time to hang with you then don't bother hanging out with her there are sooooo many other people that you could hang out with and then about your mom. my step dad is like mean but like he just play hits me and i found that the best thing to do is just to ignore him/her if she talks to you try to avoid talking to much and try to like not be home so much that's why you need to find a really good friend someone that you can hang out with all the time and you can basically be sisters with. ok well hope i helped : )
look im 14 too if u wanna talk add me on myspace or shoot me an email ma myspace email is youngmeindanyc@aim.com if u want shoot me and email im here for u
Am I the perfect child? ( a little bit of a rant)?
i hate it my parents don't respect me for ****.
i don't do drugs(alcohol included)and never have tried. I don't go clubbing, i'm still a virgin, i don't go out with my friends. i take them every where they want to go. i pay half the bills (not because they told me to but because i want to) i have to change my schedule to their schedule. i was ALWAYS a good Honor roll student. I went to college. they don't cook me food, the don't have to clean after me. i bend over backwards for them. and what do i get back from it:
curfew (time when i have to be home): 9pm
i have to take my mom with me when i go with my boyfriend anywhere
i'm not allowed out of the house by myself unless its to work or school
i can't hang out with my very VERY FEW friends.
NO TRUST WHAT SO EVER and i have never done anything to lose their trust.
i'm their freakin slave that gives in to their every wish.
and i my a** hole father is an alcoholic that religiously drinks every weekend.
they try to make me feel guilty when ever i do something for myself
and the worst part is THAT I'M ******* 2O!!!!!!!!!!! I legally am old enough to do anything i please! (i'm usually don't use bad language but i'm p.o) and why do i still OBEY THEM. HOLLY CRAP.
I JUST DON'T HAVE IT IN ME TO REBEL.
and why haven't i haven't moved out 2 years ago.... cus i feel guilty and kno it would hurt them. i'm going to marry the man i love and i don't care what they say or how much they tell me it hurts them. or what they say. cus i have been the most respectful, must obedient daughter any parent could have
and everyone one has told them. URGHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?br>
....somebody save me from myself..............Am I the perfect child? ( a little bit of a rant)?
Save yourself! No guarantees my dear in life that you get what you give. You have done all of these good things for YOUR benefit - whether your parents asked you to do them or not - all of them will benefit YOU - %26amp; that is self love, something your parents did not teach you but that you earned.
It is something many parents never manage to give their kids, even deserving ones. But somehow your parents, through their LACKING of many things, managed to bestow upon you, on purpose or by default. Either way, you are a good person who deserves to begin getting what you give. Your parents are already hurting or else they wouldn't be so miserable, so let them have their misery! They were miserable before you came %26amp; will be exactly the same way when you leave. Leave your guilt about it at the door, %26amp; start packing today. Really. Start packing now, give your folks a kiss at the door, %26amp; tell them thanks for everything. And start your own life without looking back. You owe them nothing anymore.Am I the perfect child? ( a little bit of a rant)?
i know you'll probabily feel guilty, but you have to think that you're 20 years old, you're not a child anymore. have you ever tried to talk to them and explain how you feel? i know it's difficult but try.
I'm sorry for what happened to you :'(
That kinda happens to me too. My parents do the same thing to me. I can't hang out with my friends without feeling guilty. While one of my brothers is barely home to help my parents anyway, but they're okay with that.
I don't think you should rebel or something like that, afterall, they're your parents. You only have to try to get your rights. I think you should move from your parents house. Visit them every week so it won't hurt them too much. Tell them you want to be independent.
Tell them you have been a good daughter all the time and never broken their trust, so why would they not trust you. Ask them politely. You have to talk about this with your mom and dad when the situation is perfect.
Good luck.
If you live with your parents, you have to follow the house rules. I went through this, too. I was 20 and lived at home going to college. I hated it but now that I'm 27, I'm so glad I followed their rules. I have a great job, great apartment, money in the bank, new car, nice boyfriend and a fun life. I can't imagine what bad choice I would have made back then. Smile and go give them a hug. They are doing what is best for you.
This can really go two different ways. Either they are very loving parents that just want the best for you and are trying to gear you in the right direction OR they are (still loving) parents that have manipulated you through guilt so that you can fill a void within them. I really don't know any of you so it's really hard to tell, but if it's the latter, it's time to release the guilt and to tell yourself that your parent's happiness is not your responsibility. In fact it's a parent's responsibility to teach their children how to be independent and how to feel good about it. Do not marry your boyfriend out of rebellion. Take baby steps. First move out and tell your parents that you appreciate everything they did for you, but it's time for you to go, and then once you're on your own and have less emotional baggage to deal with, you can choose to marry him. I only advise this because you don't want your choice to marry the boy you love to be a ';side effect'; of you rebelling, rather you want it to be a decision that centers on the feelings you have for each other. Good luck with everything!pimples blackheads foundation makeup
i don't do drugs(alcohol included)and never have tried. I don't go clubbing, i'm still a virgin, i don't go out with my friends. i take them every where they want to go. i pay half the bills (not because they told me to but because i want to) i have to change my schedule to their schedule. i was ALWAYS a good Honor roll student. I went to college. they don't cook me food, the don't have to clean after me. i bend over backwards for them. and what do i get back from it:
curfew (time when i have to be home): 9pm
i have to take my mom with me when i go with my boyfriend anywhere
i'm not allowed out of the house by myself unless its to work or school
i can't hang out with my very VERY FEW friends.
NO TRUST WHAT SO EVER and i have never done anything to lose their trust.
i'm their freakin slave that gives in to their every wish.
and i my a** hole father is an alcoholic that religiously drinks every weekend.
they try to make me feel guilty when ever i do something for myself
and the worst part is THAT I'M ******* 2O!!!!!!!!!!! I legally am old enough to do anything i please! (i'm usually don't use bad language but i'm p.o) and why do i still OBEY THEM. HOLLY CRAP.
I JUST DON'T HAVE IT IN ME TO REBEL.
and why haven't i haven't moved out 2 years ago.... cus i feel guilty and kno it would hurt them. i'm going to marry the man i love and i don't care what they say or how much they tell me it hurts them. or what they say. cus i have been the most respectful, must obedient daughter any parent could have
and everyone one has told them. URGHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?br>
....somebody save me from myself..............Am I the perfect child? ( a little bit of a rant)?
Save yourself! No guarantees my dear in life that you get what you give. You have done all of these good things for YOUR benefit - whether your parents asked you to do them or not - all of them will benefit YOU - %26amp; that is self love, something your parents did not teach you but that you earned.
It is something many parents never manage to give their kids, even deserving ones. But somehow your parents, through their LACKING of many things, managed to bestow upon you, on purpose or by default. Either way, you are a good person who deserves to begin getting what you give. Your parents are already hurting or else they wouldn't be so miserable, so let them have their misery! They were miserable before you came %26amp; will be exactly the same way when you leave. Leave your guilt about it at the door, %26amp; start packing today. Really. Start packing now, give your folks a kiss at the door, %26amp; tell them thanks for everything. And start your own life without looking back. You owe them nothing anymore.Am I the perfect child? ( a little bit of a rant)?
i know you'll probabily feel guilty, but you have to think that you're 20 years old, you're not a child anymore. have you ever tried to talk to them and explain how you feel? i know it's difficult but try.
I'm sorry for what happened to you :'(
That kinda happens to me too. My parents do the same thing to me. I can't hang out with my friends without feeling guilty. While one of my brothers is barely home to help my parents anyway, but they're okay with that.
I don't think you should rebel or something like that, afterall, they're your parents. You only have to try to get your rights. I think you should move from your parents house. Visit them every week so it won't hurt them too much. Tell them you want to be independent.
Tell them you have been a good daughter all the time and never broken their trust, so why would they not trust you. Ask them politely. You have to talk about this with your mom and dad when the situation is perfect.
Good luck.
If you live with your parents, you have to follow the house rules. I went through this, too. I was 20 and lived at home going to college. I hated it but now that I'm 27, I'm so glad I followed their rules. I have a great job, great apartment, money in the bank, new car, nice boyfriend and a fun life. I can't imagine what bad choice I would have made back then. Smile and go give them a hug. They are doing what is best for you.
This can really go two different ways. Either they are very loving parents that just want the best for you and are trying to gear you in the right direction OR they are (still loving) parents that have manipulated you through guilt so that you can fill a void within them. I really don't know any of you so it's really hard to tell, but if it's the latter, it's time to release the guilt and to tell yourself that your parent's happiness is not your responsibility. In fact it's a parent's responsibility to teach their children how to be independent and how to feel good about it. Do not marry your boyfriend out of rebellion. Take baby steps. First move out and tell your parents that you appreciate everything they did for you, but it's time for you to go, and then once you're on your own and have less emotional baggage to deal with, you can choose to marry him. I only advise this because you don't want your choice to marry the boy you love to be a ';side effect'; of you rebelling, rather you want it to be a decision that centers on the feelings you have for each other. Good luck with everything!
I've been feeling really low lately [kind of a rant]?
I'm 13 years old and I feel depressed all the time. Not mentally, but.. I don't know. I feel like I have no friends at all. I have really bad social anxiety, and I can't talk to anyone about it. People think I'm a freak because I always stutter and can't hold a conversation at all. People who I thought were my ';friends'; ignore me after a while and start to talk to new people. I'm basically alone all the time, and always feeling paranoid that someone's looking at me. My parents don't understand me at all. They are on my back about everything 24/7. They're perfectionists and expect perfect grades from me. I recently got 2 B's on my report card and my parents got so mad they tried to beat me with a plastic chair. My dad, especially, likes to embarrass me in public about my social anxiety. When I see someone from school, he'll be like, ';Why didn't you say hi to them, huh? Look at those girls with all their friends. And you have no friends at all.'; And he'd just glare at me and shake his head and it makes me feel like crap. My mom is also always going on about how I'll never make it in life and go to a good college and stuff. And she just starts screaming and it's really scary. I just don't know what to do with myself. I don't want to commit suicide or anything, but sometimes I'd just like to think about doing that and everyone feeling guilty about it. What can I do? Like I don't want to just ';talk to my parents'; about how I'm feeling. That just doesn't work for them.I've been feeling really low lately [kind of a rant]?
It is perfectly normal to feel socially anxious at 13. It's probably more abnormal not to feel a little anxious. Your hormones are going all over the place and you are making the transition from little girl to teenager. All of the things you're feeling are normal and natural. Just be patient with yourself and learn to give yourself the ';pats on the back'; and encouragement that you're not getting from your parents. They probably just don't realize how much they're not helping by their pressure and behavior. I'm sure they just want to see you happy and healthy. Take baby steps and you will begin to get more comfortable around people. Maybe you could talk to a school counselor.I've been feeling really low lately [kind of a rant]?
pray go to God
Oh my, I feel the exact same way =(
It is perfectly normal to feel socially anxious at 13. It's probably more abnormal not to feel a little anxious. Your hormones are going all over the place and you are making the transition from little girl to teenager. All of the things you're feeling are normal and natural. Just be patient with yourself and learn to give yourself the ';pats on the back'; and encouragement that you're not getting from your parents. They probably just don't realize how much they're not helping by their pressure and behavior. I'm sure they just want to see you happy and healthy. Take baby steps and you will begin to get more comfortable around people. Maybe you could talk to a school counselor.I've been feeling really low lately [kind of a rant]?
pray go to God
Oh my, I feel the exact same way =(
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